May is a busy and happy month. In this month, the children are hard, because this month, Fan Wen's experience: the experience of kindergarten large class education. We will rehearse the program of literature and art to welcome Children's Day. Our class will rehearse a dance. I remember one time, we just rehearsed the program, maybe we just started to arrange the program, and the children were not in the state yet, so it was very difficult to rehearse. Especially Wu's children, although she usually studies well and learns things quickly, they are stiff when dancing. I can't even jump the beat correctly. Then what should I do?
As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June." Affirming what adults do is to appreciate and praise. For example, a young woman, wearing a new dress or doing a new hairstyle, is very sensitive to the eyes around her, not to mention praising her face to face. It's an appreciative look, and she also feels warm inside My Sweetie. Not to mention adults, not to mention children.
Then children like to listen to good words and like to be praised. They often know themselves from the comments of adults. It is worth noting that appreciation and praise must be measured and principled. Appreciation and praise are also a double-edged sword. Excessive praise and appreciation is not good for children's growth. Children must be aware of their own shortcomings and gradually correct them. Undoubtedly, the prohibition of corporal punishment and corporal punishment in disguised form is the most basic principle that every educator must abide by. In the face of children's shortcomings and areas that need improvement in all aspects, we can't use this as an excuse to let them develop, nor can we hurt children's "face" and self-esteem like reasonable adults. It's easier to be inspired to mend, but harder to be accused to mend.
I thought of a way to let Lu Tongxin, a good dancer, teach her to dance and give her some applause and encouragement at an appropriate time. Wu achieved good results in a few days. So honor is not for one person, but for the joint efforts of several people. I am really happy to see that the dance in our class is getting smoother and smoother.
The history of quasi-social development is a history full of creativity. From caves to skyscrapers, from carriages to spaceships, from Song and Ming Dynasties to artificial suns. The development of human society needs creation, and creation comes from people. Only with creative thinking mode can people break away from convention and create miracles. There are no two identical people in the world, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world. Every child has his unique thoughts, unique ideas, unique perspectives and unique ways of thinking. In children's eyes, there is no absolute standard to judge things, but it is the inherent, recognized and existing knowledge taught by adults later that forces children to slowly give up their "whimsy" and become people with the same vision and way of thinking as others. Of course, some people will say that most people are not wrong, at least everyone lives according to the same standards and ways. That's right. However, social development and personal success need unique creative thinking to create greater progress of mankind, rather than holding the knowledge and achievements of our ancestors without progress.
The development of human creativity begins in infancy, and infancy and preschool are the key periods to cultivate and develop children's creativity. The foundation laid at this time may affect the whole process of life development. According to the results of creativity research (Ming: children's creative thinking test scores at the age of 4 began to decline after the age of 5.
What is the reason for it
Torrance, an American expert on creative thinking, also found that children's creative ability develops rapidly at the age of 3-5, and gradually declines after the age of 5. Children in our country also have the phenomenon of rising first and then falling. Why on earth is this? The influence of family and school has caused this phenomenon. The main activities in kindergarten or family in early childhood are mainly games. Parents and teachers rarely restrict children's play activities, and children have a lot of free space to play, think and play at will. At this time, parents and teachers will not interfere too much with children's thoughts or actions, and children will not be denied and accused by others because of their whimsy. So creative thinking is developing very well. However, with the growth of children's age, children will begin to face learning activities, and parents and teachers will become "strict" at this time, because they emphasize that children should master more knowledge and pay more attention to whether children can think correctly. They will tell children what is right and what is wrong; What to do and what not to do. Because of uniform standards, children's behavior is always supervised and evaluated by adults. When the children didn't leave the city, which was still immersed in the joy of hosting the Olympic Games, as the adults taught them, they also bid farewell to their lazy summer life. With curiosity and excitement, I arrived at Nankou Inspirational National Defense Education Base in Changping District on 23rd and started a five-day military training life. I accepted the baptism of warm sunshine and faced many tests. What I learned from Fan Wen's experience is: summary report of military training.
I was assigned to the sixth company, a row of four classes, and we were trained by a recruit who was only 2 1 year old and had been a soldier for only one year. He loves to laugh, but his childish face is full of seriousness and seriousness. At the same time, we were trained by a beautiful young female soldier, who is also in her twenties. She has been a platoon leader and is said to be promoted to company commander soon. She also loves to laugh, especially joking with us. However, when the instructors are training, they still have high requirements for us. If the student's movements are not in place, he will show them to us again and again, and let us repeat them again and again. The instructors said, "To be a soldier in uniform is to demand yourself by the standards of a soldier." I always remember this sentence. Although many people in my family are soldiers, this is my first close contact with military life.
Dressed in green, which symbolizes life and hope, the students are full of energy and curious about military training. But on the second and third days ... we stood in a military posture, turned around, saluted, walked quickly, ran, walked, squatted and so on ... We repeated this boring action over and over again. Singing and shouting orders, we roared with all our strength, but we could never satisfy the instructor. Back pain must be supported; Lumbago, still straight; I lost my voice and my throat was still screaming. Whether it is heavy rain or scorching sun, our training remains the same; Whether it is sweat or tears, our steps can't stop. We will always remember our oath: "Sweat and sweat do not shed tears, and flesh and blood do not fall behind." After intense, strict and arduous military training, we ushered in a report performance five days later. By this time, I was already a qualified soldier. Closed camp, our military posture remains the same, the pace is neat and powerful, and the slogan is loud and clear. We carefully understand the maturity and carefulness of the soldiers, and understand the "summary report of military training: life is full of hardships, and it is spring and autumn after stepping over bumps" (). "Being qualified politically, competent militarily, competent in work style, strict in discipline and strong in guarantee" is the standard of a soldier and will also become my goal. Although I am not a soldier, I will try my best to do this.
At the same time, at home, we are almost naked and have established a deep friendship in military training. Students encourage each other, help each other, unite as one, and find happiness in hard military training. The lawless military training ended, and the students in the dormitory reluctantly said goodbye. We are about to leave and go back to our respective classes. I can't help but leave tears, but these tears are not sadness but hope for the future and expectation of high school life. I found that I have grown up this summer.
The first class in senior high school-military training, ended successfully in the warm applause of the closed camp on the 27th five days later. Looking back on these days, I feel a lot.
"Sword front comes from sharpening, plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold" is the experience of military training. It is the result of military training that "there is a strong wind in the southeast and northwest". During the military training, we also invited professors from National Defense University to give us lectures and organized a gala (I am also a propagandist), which made us fully understand the colorful life in the military camp and the rapid development of modern military. The feeling of military training needs to be understood with heart. It teaches us to care about others, deepens our understanding of the responsibility of defending the motherland, and tells us the attitude we should adopt in the face of difficulties. We at least I am no longer a delicate child, no longer a good boy.
Crying little girl, I know that in the face of the peak, we have to build a ladder ourselves; When we meet a cliff, we must connect the ropes ourselves. Our destiny is in our own hands, depending on whether we can grasp it!
Five days is just a moment in a long life. But the five days spent in the military camp are definitely extraordinary five days. "The sun walks after the storm, please believe there is a rainbow." We must work hard, we must fight hard, whoever laughs last will be the ultimate winner, and whoever persists to the end will be the real hero.
Life = sunshine after the storm, standing at the starting line of high school, we have all grown up, and I will work hard towards the goal and leave a good high school memory for myself.