Don't compare

Don't always compare your children with other people's children. This is easy to make children feel inferior, which is not conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

Don't talk about it.

Don't talk about children's academic performance. Parents repeating this ineffective way can only make children more tired of learning, create psychological communication obstacles and avoid talking to their parents.

Don't blame

Parents should not blame each other in front of their children. Creating a harmonious environment for family growth is very important for children's mental health.

Magnifier sees advantages

Parents should learn to see the advantages of their children with a magnifying glass. Children's recognition from their parents can cultivate "sunshine psychology", thus making children more confident.

Interpersonal skills

Parents should learn the skills of communicating with their children. Paying attention to children's mood and feelings is more important than paying attention to grades.

Common interests

Parents should seek common interests and hobbies with their children. Only in this way can we find a common topic with our children and walk into their inner world.

make friends

Parents should make friends with their children.