1. Establish clear expectations and rules: Establish clear goals and expectations with children and make sure they understand them. This helps children to better understand how their actions affect their future and stimulate their positive motivation.

2. Develop time management skills: help children understand the importance of time and teach them how to manage time effectively. This includes making plans and goals, setting time limits and encouraging them to give priority to the most important things.

3. Give appropriate rewards and incentives: When children show positive behavior, give appropriate rewards and praise in time to enhance their positive behavior. This can motivate them to pursue progress even harder.

4. Establish good communication: Establish good communication channels with children so that children can feel the care and support of their parents. This helps children to be more confident and willing to share their thoughts and feelings with their parents.

5. Cultivate self-control ability: help children understand the importance of self-control and teach them how to control their emotions and behaviors effectively. This helps children to better cope with setbacks and difficulties and maintain a positive attitude.

6. Encourage to try new things: Encourage children to try new things and challenge themselves. This helps children to expand their horizons and abilities and enhance their self-confidence.

7. Set a good example: Parents should be good examples for their children and show positive behaviors and attitudes. This helps children to better understand and accept their parents' education methods.

The consequences of children's laziness and procrastination:

1, behavior becomes lazy, and procrastination easily makes children lazy. I don't know how to do things, but I always take a step back. Or don't care at all when you do it. Everything needs parents to worry about them. Once such behavior becomes an inertia, nothing a child can do will have a good result.

2, affecting academic performance, some children's academic performance is not very good, every time they write homework, they are in a bad state, not because they don't want to write. Even after a long time, parents will feel very serious, so they will write slowly. However, if the time is always too long, it is not a good thing. This is all caused by procrastination with children and poor study habits.