Children's basic material needs
We should pay attention to the needs of children. Every time a child clamors to buy something, we should patiently ask him why. If it is out of legitimate needs, of course, we will "give generously." For unnecessary purchase requests, we will patiently reason with him and let him understand the reasons for not buying, instead of being silent or reprimanding.
Restrict children's material desires
Parents should control their children's material desires from an early age. If you are obedient to your child materially, in the long run, once his requirements are not met, it will be easy to go to extremes and cause adverse consequences. Therefore, we implement the "contract responsibility system" for children, so that children can know how to cherish property and make the best use of it.
Cultivate children's work habits
We consciously teach children to do simple housework and cultivate their labor concept. No matter whether he does well in the end, we will give him timely praise, moral encouragement or material rewards. Children often "beg" us to do something after tasting the happiness and satisfaction after work. In this virtuous circle, children gradually realize that it is happy and glorious to get "reward" through their own labor and efforts.