Let the children hit the wall more, without help or involvement, and solve it by themselves. It is common for children to wrestle. Most parents hold their children nervously, complaining about their mistakes or coaxing them with their favorite snacks. The correct way is for parents to stand by and encourage their children to get up, pat the dirt on their bodies, dry their tears and say to their parents with a smile, "It's painless, I can do it myself." Children who grow up and go to school have their own personalities, and introverted children rely more on parent-teacher conferences. I have a boy of 12 years old who was robbed because he was playing basketball with his classmates. When he got home, he hit his head against the coffee table and wall at home. At this time, his mother standing at home did not stop him, but diverted his attention and let the child stop telling stories. After listening, the parents did not blame his classmates, but told their children, "Everyone will encounter unpleasant things in one way or another during their growth. You must learn to be independent and strong. This little thing is too radical. Unexpectedly, after living in school, this child is more independent than other children: attending classes on time, washing clothes frequently, not picky about food, and having a harmonious relationship with roommates.

As for extroverted children, they have a strong desire for expression and independence since childhood. They take part in all school activities without parents' opinions, and they handle things very neatly. Parents are lazy, give their children some self-control time and do what they can. It is said that the lighter the parents, the lazier the children, and the worse their independence. It's true. Parents are always worried that their children will be afraid of melting in their mouths, afraid of falling off hand in hand, and do everything for their children, which completely binds their flexible hands. As long as children can talk and do things, they should be trained to eat, dress, wash and tidy up their own dishes and toys. In the process of growing up, children should be allowed to wash their own clothes, clean up all the dishes on the dining table, help wash vegetables and clean up the house on weekends, and so on. One day, when children leave their parents, they don't need their parents to accompany them and help them with logistics.

There is a child, because his parents are very busy at work, who often goes on business trips, goes to the countryside and stays in the village. And his mother is not at home every birthday, even if he is promoted to junior high school or junior high school. During this period, the father of the child has been left unattended except for cooking every cooked meal, washing clothes, cleaning the room, doing homework and sleeping. Since he lived in school, this child's behavior is completely different from other children. A 5-year-old boy who saw his friend last year. I'm too rational. When I am happy, I sing and dance. I brushed my clothes and shoes. After dinner, I don't need anyone to talk, and I rushed to clean up the dishes. In addition, I tell you that when you eat, you can't leave a grain of rice in the bowl. Even if the child goes to a distant relative's house, he doesn't need his parents' company, so he can take care of it by plane. And we all say that the children of poor families are in charge early. Why? Because parents don't have time to take care of their children's everything, children naturally learn to take on everything from an early age and do everything independently.