I once read a story about a boy taking his beloved dog for a walk with his father. When the dog ran, it trampled a girl's small canal. The little girl unreasonably asked her father, a rich businessman, to buy the dog and kill it. The boy's father has not decided whether to sell dogs instead of his son. He just told the rich man that the owner of the dog was his son and it should be his son's decision.

I quite agree with this father's approach. He didn't impose his will on his son, but let him think independently, make his own choices and take charge of his own affairs.

It seems simple to do this, but I don't think it's simple. First of all, this is respect for children. Only when parents respect their children can they gain their respect and trust, thus laying a solid foundation for the communication between the two generations. But now many of my parents have arranged everything for their children, from food to clothes, even their thoughts and behaviors. Parents only ask their children to read good books and seldom care about their hearts. In this way, the gap between parents and children is getting bigger and bigger, and communication is becoming more and more difficult.

In fact, letting children choose for themselves can also help children understand their attitudes and ways of dealing with people. Just like telling this story at the beginning, after the rich businessman offered ten times the original price, the boy remained unmoved and resolutely refused to sell his dog, which showed the boy's virtue and integrity. If a boy wavers in front of money and exposes his weakness, his father can educate him.

In addition, doing so can cultivate children's ability to think independently. A person always has to face life by himself, and parents can't be their children's mentors all their lives. If children are dominated by their parents' thoughts for a long time and have no ability to think and live independently, they cannot survive in this highly competitive society, let alone make a difference.

Finally, it also cultivates children's sense of responsibility. Imagine, a person without a sense of responsibility, how to face reality and life?

Therefore, I think that in family education, parents should attach great importance to their children, respect their wishes and ask for their opinions.

Dear parents, you all love your children very much, so please create such an atmosphere for your children to grow up healthily in such a family education atmosphere.

Grow up!