With the growth of age, children's self-awareness is gradually enhanced, their subjective initiative is getting bigger and bigger, and they show greater selectivity in the command and arrangement of adults. So he often shows arbitrariness and disobedience. You can call him that, but he must never do that. He began to "stand on his own feet", which is treason in the eyes of adults.

? How to teach children what is a good way to rebel?

? 1, 12- 15 years old is adolescence, which is the most rebellious period for boys and girls.

Children in this period have the biggest emotional ups and downs and are the most difficult to control. If parents and children confront each other head-on, they can only lose both sides. Might as well be more considerate and patient, less blame and coercion. Parents' language is the most deadly. If you often use "coward, coward, idiot" to belittle your child, he will become more rebellious and even break the jar. If you want your children to be excellent, then parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds and slowly melt their children's hearts with gentle language. Give him some tolerance and understanding, and he will be grateful to you for a lifetime.

? 2. The second rebellious period is 7-9 years old.

As the saying goes, seven or eight years old is disgusting. It means that when children are seven or eight years old, the transition from children to teenagers belongs to the second rebellious period. Children in this period are noisy, bedridden, picky eaters, do not like to do homework, are tired of learning, and will oppose their parents. Because in their eyes, they have grown up and don't want to be controlled by their parents anymore. In the face of such children, the first thing parents should do is to respect the development of their children in each period. Communicate with children more when you encounter something, instead of solving the problem by force. It is natural for children to love to play. Mothers can try to cultivate their children's hobbies and give them freedom within a limited scope. If you restrict him too much, it will increase your rebellious attitude.

? 3. The first rebellious period is about 2 years old.

The first rebellious period in life occurs when a child is two years old, which is a crucial stage from infancy to toddlerhood. Before the child was two years old, he had a strong sense of dependence on his mother and was very obedient. Children in this period don't have much opinions, and they do whatever you ask them to do. But by the age of two, children have their own ideas and wishes, like to go their own way, and no longer want to listen to adults. This is also my favorite stage of losing my temper. Many parents are puzzled, how did the obedient baby become like this?

In fact, mothers don't have to worry, this is a critical period for children to grow up. It is a good thing for him to have his own opinion and independent consciousness. Mothers should wait patiently and stabilize their emotions. Don't stop him with harsh words. Otherwise, it is easy to inhibit children's desire for independence and increase their resistance. You can give him some choices and tell him what to do and what not to do in a gentle and firm tone.