Model essay on family education experience
Through listening to lectures and reading related books, we can fully realize the significance of family education, master the specific methods of family education for primary school students, and how to teach children to learn to learn.
I deeply understand that educating children should start with the education of parents and families. While setting an example, parents should also pay attention to actively cultivating children to form good habits from an early age.
Let me talk about the following five experiences in combination with my actual situation:
1, pay attention to family education
Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect.
Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's learning, character, conduct, will, interest and so on. And children are easy to accept and grow up.
However, on weekends and winter and summer vacations, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, have no regular study and life, and forget the good habits cultivated at school.
Only when parents realize the importance of family education, really think about their children, put education in an important position, and take the initiative to do a good job in family education by using appropriate methods, can children grow up healthily step by step and grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain.
2. Set an example for children.
In the family, parents are the mirror of children, and children are the shadow of parents. Everything parents say and do will have a subtle influence on their children.
Therefore, when parents make demands on their children, they must first think about whether they can follow the requirements.
Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games, but if parents sit watching TV or playing mobile phones while their children are doing their homework, what will the children think in their hearts, and they will definitely feel unbalanced and will not concentrate on their studies.
Therefore, parents must set an example, be cautious, and ask their children not to do it first.
Through words and deeds, set a good example for children and educate them better.
3. Cultivate children's sound personality
When educating children, we should treat them as subjects with independent personality, respect them, and don't do anything to replace them, let alone spoil them.
Don't be condescending when communicating with children. When you encounter something, you should discuss it with your children more, let them participate in family management, and learn to handle some basic affairs. Don't think that they can ignore their opinions just because they are young. This is not desirable.
The core of people's mental health is self-esteem and self-confidence. As long as self-esteem and self-confidence are achieved, psychological problems rarely appear.
If you don't take children seriously, you can't talk about cultivating children's self-esteem. Helping children to deal with interpersonal relationships, good peer relationships can make children respected among peers and have a sense of belonging to love, which is very important for cultivating children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
At the same time, we should cultivate children's modest character, lower themselves and learn tolerance and understanding.
4. Learn to appreciate children
Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and admire children, be persuasive, and constantly cultivate children's self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance.
Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can discover their children's advantages with loving eyes, and point out and correct their children's shortcomings with praise sentences such as "You can do it" and "You are great" in the right way, the children will certainly change and grow in happiness.
Don't criticize your child because he didn't get a high score in the first exam. Encourage him to say "He did well in the exam" and "Keep working hard" and help him analyze the reasons why some questions were wrong and find the right way, so that he won't be helpless when he encounters such problems next time.
Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence, help to explore their great potential and let them develop better.
5. Create a good family environment
Environment can easily change a person, especially a child.
Some people say that children's brains are fertile soil, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. This shows the importance of the environment to children's growth.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves.
Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. Too many examples prove that children's depravity, numbness and other problems are mostly caused by the lack of love in the family.
Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family. Will he still care about strangers?
Therefore, parents should strengthen communication, accompany their children as much as possible, listen to their voices, work together to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for their children, form a good family style, and let their children grow up happily and carefree.
A famous educator put it well: "The fate of a country is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of every parent."
Children are the only parents, and parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and cultivate their children.
It is necessary to put the relevant theories of family education into practice, cooperate with teachers to help children finish their homework carefully every day, educate children to develop good habits of loving reading and diligent exercise, and have a self-confident and self-reliant attitude so that children can grow up healthily and happily.
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