1, children know how to protect themselves and take responsibility.
For children who have conflicts with others at school, parents should first give comfort and appease their emotions. After the child calms down, parents can slowly straighten things out with their children.
If the child makes a mistake, then correctly guide the child to pay more attention next time and correct the mistake. If children are wronged, parents should also tell them to take practical actions to resist their classmates and learn to protect themselves.
Understand the cause of things first, don't rely on subjective judgment.
As parents, when they hear that their children have conflicts with their classmates at school, they must not act arbitrarily. They should understand the reason of the matter first, not listen to one side of the story
Many parents and children have this kind of thing, whether it is the wrong party or the bullied party, parents will only listen to the teacher's statement and rarely ask the child patiently what the reason is.
In fact, the most responsible way to deal with it is to make the most rational judgment after parents understand it. They can't help but trust their children, and at the same time they can't protect their children. This is the most beneficial education for children.
Step 3 lead by example
Why do some children like to fight to deal with problems? Sometimes it has something to do with parents. Some parents also like to use straightforward methods when dealing with problems, such as abuse and hands-on.
The importance of family education
A good and stable family can make children's three views more healthy and positive. Good family education is the key for children to form a good character and a sound personality.
Intelligence is innate, but personality and personality are deeply influenced by family education. "Character decides fate" and "A leopard cannot change his spots" are all about character, which shows that once a character is formed, it is difficult to change. Only with a sound personality can we have the correct three views, and only with the correct three views can we have a correct life.