If you want to be a talent, you must be an adult first! Fu Cong is a famous pianist in China. His growth is closely related to his father, Mr. Fu Lei. Fu Lei's education of Fu Cong follows the creed of "being a man first, then being an artist, then being a musician, and finally being a pianist". Fu Cong's growing process proves that "adult" is the foundation of "success". Now many parents attach great importance to their children's early education. However, some parents have great blindness and randomness in educating their children. They mistakenly think that early education is early intellectual development, and early intellectual development is literacy and arithmetic ... so they are keen to let their children participate in this class and that class, but rarely think of teaching them how to be a person. It is important to develop intelligence, but it is more important to teach children how to behave. Because "morality can often make up for the defects of wisdom, and wisdom can never make up for the defects of morality." Love your son, but don't spoil him. Yao put his son's education in family life, that is, he acted by himself and treated people with things. Strict requirements should be set for small things such as dressing, eating, standing, walking and talking. For example, when eating, pay attention to whether the child is sitting up straight. Whether the posture of elbow leaning on the table interferes with the people at the same table, and whether there is a rude chewing sound when eating. Grasping the characteristics of children's specific thinking image, the education of being a man runs through children's approachable and easy-to-understand daily life, gradually improving children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, deepening children's moral and emotional experience and cultivating children's good behavior habits. It is these practices that make them physically and mentally healthy and dignified since childhood, laying the foundation for them to adapt to complex social life when they grow up. However, some of our parents haven't realized that a person's behavior habits are the basis of his moral formation, and the sensitive period of habit formation is even earlier than that of intellectual development. You know, the formation of people's behavior habits begins in infancy. It can be said that children begin to gradually form the habit of eating and living after birth, which contains the bud of moral behavior. Some parents think that children's living habits are trivial, which does not hinder the overall situation and ignores the cultivation of children's good behavior habits. Even if they see that the child is wrong, they will not correct it and let it go. It's too late for them to correct their children after they find out that they have formed bad habits.