Every parent wants their children to succeed, but the education of "hating iron and not producing steel" has never been a good way of education. Children who are often scolded by their parents will become alienated from their parents. No matter whether parents are right or wrong, they will do what their parents say, which will make them feel inferior and cowardly. Emotionally, I will gradually alienate my parents. This repressive education method is easy to bring trauma to children's minds, making them weak, inferior and even gradually becoming extremely unconfident. In the long run, children's spirit and enterprising spirit will be worn away and their future will be ruined.

What happens to children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents?

1, children become timid, passive Nuo Nuo, roll with the punches.

2, withdrawn and indifferent. There is a saying that makes sense. Parents' three-point temper will bring seven-point harm to their children. Parents often beat their children, which will make their children's personality become withdrawn and indifferent.

3. The relationship with parents is not intimate. Children who grow up under the abuse of their parents for a long time will inevitably have resentment against their parents. Over time, they will be alienated from their parents.

4. Not filial to parents. When children are educated by their parents, they will want to escape from their parents' control when they grow up. Children who work and get married may not go home all the year round or even call their parents. It is difficult for parents to see their children, let alone be filial to their parents.

5, easy to get depression. A parent who always beats and scolds his children will certainly not be the best listener for their children. Therefore, when a child encounters difficulties or confusion in the process of growing up, he can't get help and support from his parents. Too many negative emotions can easily lead to depression.

6, there is a tendency to violence. Children have a strong ability to imitate when they are young. For example, if parents often beat their children, they will learn to beat them. At the same time, it invisibly taught children to solve problems and deal with things by hitting people when encountering problems or difficulties, and planted the seeds of violence in their hearts.

7. The child's background color is gray, and the child will think that I am not good. I am useless and worthless, and this society is not good.

8, psychological shadow, children who grew up beating and cursing have been hurt inside, they hate their parents, never forgive their parents for a lifetime, contradict their parents, and are not filial to their parents. Many unfilial children who are often accused by others in society are children who grew up beating and cursing.

Beating and cursing is the most harmful way of education for children. As parents, it is difficult to control their emotions, nor can they vent their emotions on their children. Treat children with encouraging education, give them recognition and encouragement, and let them fully feel the love and warmth of their parents. Only in this way can children be confident, sunny, brave and responsible!