2. Fu Lei used his own experience and life experience to teach his son to be modest and rigorous and behave appropriately.

Don't be discouraged when you encounter difficulties, and don't be proud of winning the grand prize.

4. Have the sense of honor and disgrace of the country and the nation, have the dignity of art and personality, and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality".

5. At the same time, Fu Lei also gave his son useful guidance in life, and devoted considerable space to art, music works, performance skills and artistic accomplishment.

6. Like a mentor, give advice and suggestions on how to combine work and rest, manage money correctly, and how to handle love and marriage correctly in daily life.

This article is taken from A Letter from Fu Lei written by modern Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu.

Introduction to Extended Data Content:

Fu Lei's letter was lost in the "Cultural Revolution", when all the possessions of the Fu family were copied, and his letter was not spared. One day more than ten years later, the Shanghai Conservatory of Music found some of Fu Lei's relics in a small room, which contained brooms and other sundries.

Among them, there is a workbook wrapped in black paper, called "Excerpts from Conger's Letters". 1986, Fu Cong resolutely refused to publish these letters after learning about it, because he felt that his thoughts and words were too immature to compare with his father when he was young.

Therefore, the previous version of "Letters from Fu Lei" is often just a monologue of Fu Lei. We can only imagine or guess how Fu Cong responded to his father, which is a great pity.

In the letters from home, we can see that Fu Lei, who is extremely strict with his children's education at ordinary times, expressed his heartfelt feelings and deeply loved his son: "The day after you left, you wanted to write a letter, fearing that you would be bored, that's all." But not a day goes by without thinking about you. "(1954)" You came back and left again; Many new jobs, new busyness and new changes are waiting for you, and you won't feel lonely;

However, we calm down and slowly restore our monotonous life, which is inevitably empty compared with the party and excitement just past. "(1956)" My son has made friends. What else in the world can compare with this happiness! Although you and I will get together less and less in the future, I am at least warm in spirit and not lonely. "

Writing background:

Letters from Fu Lei is a book reprinted by Yilin Publishing House on 20 18. The authors are Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu, and the editor is Fu Min. Letters from Fu Lei was first published in 198 1. The publication of Fu Lei's Letters was a sensational cultural event at that time and sold well for more than 30 years. This is a letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and his daughter-in-law Milla from 1954 to 1966 in May, edited by his second son Fu Min.

This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed.

On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

About the author:

Fu Lei, nicknamed Wen, is a famous literary translator, literary critic and art critic. In the early 1920s, I studied at Xuhui Public School founded by Catholicism in Shanghai. He was expelled from school for making fierce remarks against superstition and religion. During the May 4th Movement, he took part in street demonstrations and speeches.