1. Parents must be calm when they find their children abusing animals, and don't educate their children by violent means, which will aggravate their abusive behavior. Parents should pay attention to strategies in education.
2. We should have in-depth communication with children, find out their true thoughts of cruelty to animals, and see if they want to vent their emotions out of curiosity or depression.
3. If out of curiosity, we can guide them to read relevant books or tell them relevant stories to satisfy their curiosity; If it is psychological depression, we should change the way of education and reflect on our own behavior. Is our discipline too strict?
4. Children should be educated in empathy and love at ordinary times, telling them how small animals feel after being abused, so that they can know how to care for small animals and become caring people.
Animals are man's best friends. We often educate our children to be kind to animals and love them. However, there are still some children who take pleasure in "torturing animals" and often do things that hurt animals.
For example, my friend's family has a 5-year-old child named Coco who likes to torture the goldfish at home. My friend keeps a lot of goldfish at home. Coco always grabs them and says, "Look at how they breathe". Because of the poor control ability when I was a child, goldfish easily fell to the ground, half dead. Friends not only don't stop cocoa, but also think it is a sign of children's curiosity and encourage him.
Until one day, Coco took out his toy scissors and said that he would dissect live goldfish to see their body structure.
My friend panicked and felt that there was something wrong with his education method.
But at this time, cocoa has developed the habit of abusing small animals. When going out to meet cats and dogs, or visiting other people's homes and seeing other people's pets, Coco must try to hit them twice. He likes to watch pets being chased around by him or being tortured by him to scream.
Why do some children abuse animals? In fact, this is an innate desire to conquer. If it is not handled well, it will have a great impact on children.
For example, children abuse pets, cats and dogs Cats and dogs are not free and can only scream in pain when they are abused. In this process, children who are abusers satisfy their desire for power and control, and they will have a sense of conquest and feel the excitement and pleasant experience after abuse. And more and more obsessed with this behavior.
Psychologists say that children who abuse animals for a long time when they are young can easily become violent when they grow up. As long as they face difficulties, are in a bad mood, or feel stressed, they will remember the desire to conquer cultivated as children, find small animals to abuse them, and get pleasure by venting.
What is even more frightening is that this kind of venting is not only on animals, but also on people who are weaker than themselves, such as wives and children. Many domestic abusers like to abuse animals since childhood.
So parents must educate their children from an early age. Although human beings are the tallest creatures in the world, we should also respect the lives of other creatures. They form the world with us, and we should love them instead of abusing them.