Ma Yashu's daughter was well protected by them, even when she was three years old, she couldn't lift her pants by herself, so her daughter was expelled from kindergarten. This incident has also aroused people's thinking. Many parents overprotect their children, but they didn't expect this to hinder their growth. Excessive protection will make children lose their self-care ability and children cannot live independently. Parents' doting sometimes hurts children.

First, let children lose their self-care ability. Parents who overprotect their children often do everything for their children and make them lose their ability to take care of themselves. Parents should not do everything, but should cultivate their children's self-care ability, such as teaching them to dress, take a bath and go to the toilet. These are all things that children must teach themselves. As parents, you can't do it for them, otherwise the children will lose their ability to take care of themselves.

Second, children can't live independently. Once parents overprotect their children, they will not be able to adapt to an independent life in the future. For example, Ma Yashu's daughter is three years old. If it were someone else's child, she would have been able to do anything, but she couldn't even lift her pants. It is precisely because as a parent, she did not educate her daughter well and always overprotected her daughter, which made her unable to live independently.

Third, doting is sometimes a kind of harm. Parents will think that protecting their children is good for their children, but this kind of overindulgence is also a kind of harm. She deprived the children of the ability to learn to take care of themselves. Maybe this is not what the child wants. Children want to be like other children. They don't want to grow up under the protection of their parents. In fact, children are not as delicate as we thought, and parents don't need to protect so much. Let the children suffer a little wind and rain, in order to grow up better.

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