Divert attention
When the child is disobedient and crying, you can temporarily put aside the current things and use other things to divert the child's attention. When the child's mood improves and calms down, then guide and educate the child. At this time, children can often listen to the truth.
Establish/make rules
Negotiate with your child, clearly say or write the rules, as well as the time limit for completion, and clearly define rewards and punishments, such as washing your hands before eating every day and remembering the little red flowers.
set a good example
Parents should demonstrate by themselves, set an example and teach their children how to do it, such as putting toys and folding clothes.