Everyone has their favorite idols and so do their parents, such as Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui. If parents keep sneering or even directly vilify their children when they watch idol videos and pictures, it will not only be a manifestation of their low quality, but also be counterproductive, making their children's resistance stronger and addictive.

2. Know yourself and yourself

In modern society, the update speed of stars is often extremely fast, which leads many parents to have no idea who their children are chasing and what they are doing. In this case, it is often unconvincing to persuade their children to stop worshipping. Therefore, it is suggested that parents can spend some time to have a detailed understanding of the stars, such as works and personalities. In order to better help children to be rational idols.

3. Gentlemen's Agreement

Most children in Idolization mainly watch idol videos, pictures, variety shows and so on. Few children can get close to idols, such as going to live concerts. It is suggested that parents can talk to their children at this time, for example, as long as the children rank in the top three in the class, they can buy concert tickets for them, which can not only effectively improve their grades, avoid addiction, but also satisfy their wishes and increase their distance.

Step 4 highlight advantages

The reason why a star becomes a star is, in the final analysis, because of his strong ability and many advantages, such as good singing, exquisite acting and hard work. It is suggested that parents can sort out these advantages, and then consciously guide their children to learn from positive energy, learn from idols, promote their efforts and enhance their abilities.

5, pay attention to the scale

In daily life, many parents are always too nervous about their children's idol worship. Obviously just watching video pictures, parents always magnify it countless times, and even directly link it with the future. If it goes on for a long time, it will make children feel that they have no sense of freedom and make more addictive behaviors. Therefore, parents are advised to pay attention to grasping the scale at ordinary times. As long as it's not particularly crazy, give your child more space. After all, children also need privacy.

Step 6 divert attention

Most children in idolize tend to be young and have weak willpower. Parents are advised to help their children divert their attention according to their usual preferences, such as traveling and buying new clothes and toys, so as to broaden their horizons and not concentrate on idolization. Secondly, they can relieve the tension caused by idolatry.

7. Calm analysis

Everything is too much, even idolization. It is suggested that parents can choose a suitable time to sit down and have a good communication with their children, and analyze the disadvantages of idolization, such as wasting time and energy, becoming extreme in character and unable to stand a little criticism from others, which is not conducive to children to establish a correct outlook on life and values, so that children can realize their mistakes in time and lose themselves.