The five major failures of parental education include over-protection, emphasis on achievement, one-way orientation, stubborn prejudice and neglect of emotion. These five aspects will be elaborated in detail below.

1. Overprotection

Parents overprotect their children and prevent them from facing problems independently, resulting in children losing their ability to think and solve problems independently. Children need to face challenges and difficulties when they grow up. If parents blindly protect them, they may become weak and lack self-confidence.

2. Focus on achievements

Many parents pay attention to their children's grades, not their learning process and the cultivation of their inner qualities. Parents who demand too much grades will bring too much pressure to their children, which will easily lead to rebellious or anxious symptoms, and then affect the development of learning and physical and mental health.

Step 3: One-way

Parents may not know enough about their children's hobbies and talents. Only by pushing their children to devote themselves wholeheartedly can they succeed in a certain field. This practice tends to make children feel bored and lack enthusiasm in the future growth process, because they lose the opportunity to explore the world.

4. Stubborn prejudice

Parents tend to be biased against their children's behaviors and ideas because of ideas and traditions, and refuse to accept new ideas and ideas, which will suppress their creativity and imagination and limit their development.

On the contrary, parents should adopt an open attitude to listen to their children's ideas and tolerate their different opinions and ideas in order to cultivate more personalized talents.

Ignore emotions

Students also need a good family emotional atmosphere when they grow up, and they can't just pay attention to their academic performance. However, many parents ignore this demand in order to pursue their children's excellent academic performance.

If parents lack the time and opportunity to communicate with their children, or show indifference and isolation in educating their children, they can make their children feel psychologically worried and uneasy, and it is difficult to form their own unique personality and identity.

The above aims to help parents think about how to better educate their children, encourage parents to pay more attention to their interests and specialties, reduce the pressure caused by paying too much attention to academic performance, establish a good family atmosphere and psychological balance, and let their children go out of their own way and become independent, positive and optimistic people.