Trusteeship teachers communicate with each other. The healthy growth of children needs escort and efforts from all sides. Parents and educational institutions need to go all out and not relax. We should pay attention to the growth of children. Let's share with you the communication skills of the custodian teacher.
Custody teacher communication speech 1 first, the child has been in your custody for so long, why is the effect not obvious?
A: Learning is a gradual process, not as obvious as high jump. Because there are too many knowledge points left by the baby before, we need to pick them up bit by bit and slowly check for leaks. Today's children may not seem to have made such obvious progress, but they will certainly make progress if they work hard slowly in the later period. We should trust our children and give them a chance to grow up.
Second, the children have passed the training of the school, but their grades have not changed much. Why?
A: The development of everything has its internal and external causes, and there is also a process. Learning doesn't happen overnight. Sometimes it may not be immediate, but it doesn't mean that children have not made progress. The child's handwriting is much better than before, and he likes to raise his hand to answer questions. Nowadays, children's grades may not be greatly improved, but the accuracy of each problem is improving. I believe that with the passage of time, children will certainly make progress. There are many children here who have made great progress in their studies. Here are some examples of students to inspire parents' confidence.
Third, the child has been with you for some time. Why are the test scores still high and low?
A: Parents, as you know, children's knowledge is easy and difficult. Simple questions, children will naturally do well in the exam, but if the questions are difficult, children's grades may decline. This time is very normal. After all, children nowadays have a common problem that they are too careless in doing problems. Many simple problems can be thought of, but they are all wrong in writing, not to mention encountering problems. Besides, the score is just a reference. You can know how your child is learning by taking any exam. After all, the progress of children is obvious to all. What can this score say? Right?
Our child has been under your care for more than three months. How can we not make progress in our studies?
A: You see, parents, the children couldn't sit still when they first came, but now they can sit there and finish their homework carefully. Isn't this the progress of children? Children may not make obvious progress in their studies, but their habits have made great progress in other aspects. As long as children have good habits, they naturally don't have to worry too much about later study. Learning is a gradual process. we
Custody teacher communication skills 2 correctly understand the identity of both parties.
At the beginning of communication, the most important thing is to have a clear understanding of the identities and positions of both parties, and to know who you are communicating with and where you should put yourself. In communication, the custodian teacher is more about guiding parents than asking them. In other words, trusteeship teachers should share the task of educating children more actively, rather than relying too much on the cooperation of parents. Therefore, in communication, we should put ourselves in the same position as our parents, let them know that although we have different identities, our love for our children is the same and the same, fully affirm the importance of both sides, and awaken the enthusiasm and initiative of parents' cooperation from the bottom of their hearts.
Persuading others is an art
The same meaning, people who can talk can make people laugh, and people who can't talk can make people jump. This is not to say that we should cater to please our parents, but to emphasize the skills of communication with others, which can make our communication more pleasant and successful. Everyone is eager to be valued by others, so we should give every parent full recognition and affirmation.
Every detail in the communication process can reflect the attitude of the other party. For example, when receiving parents, giving them simple and polite details such as giving up their seats and pouring water, putting down all their work in communication and listening to their opinions and suggestions will make parents feel valued, and parents will respect and value you accordingly. This kind of communication is pleasant and positive. Respecting each other will make communication more active and efficient.
Retreat and advance in communication
When there is a big difference between parents' opinions and the requirements of the trusteeship school, we should have an attitude that conforms to the development of the situation. Every child's situation is different, so we should pay attention to these differences in life. For example, some parents will fight for special treatment for their children because of their special circumstances. At this time, you can't strongly refuse, take a step back appropriately, and a tolerant attitude will make the trusteeship teacher understand and support when solving such special events with parents.
"Progress" means that we should be more active and brave in our work. When dealing with problems, we should confidently "go further", dare to find our own problems from children's mistakes and take the initiative to bear the consequences. This will make parents feel the love of the custodian teacher for their children, and then agree that the custodian teacher loves the children as much as himself. The "further" at the critical moment not only avoids the intensification of contradictions, but also makes communication more harmonious.
Always understand and always be grateful.
Every child's situation is different, and the family situation is even different. We should fully understand the different behaviors of each parent and treat each parent with understanding and gratitude. When you encounter problems, you should consider them from many aspects, first of all, you should find the reasons from yourself. For example, a child often makes the same mistake. The responsibility of the custodian teacher is not simply to inform parents to complain about their parents, but to ask themselves why they didn't pay attention to it and didn't help their children correct it. In fact, if we always have a grateful heart and a pair of understanding eyes, it will pay off and make your communication with your parents full of love.
Full of understanding and tolerance, flexible use of various communication skills, smoother communication between home and school, more harmonious educational environment, and healthier growth of children.
Custodian teacher communication skills 3 How to communicate with children with more small movements in class?
"Baby A, help me see who is the monitor today?" I talked to Xiao on purpose, but I didn't want him to think that I was talking to him on purpose. I wanted him to think that it was just a casual conversation.
After a while, baby A came over and said, "Teacher Tang, ok."
"Mm-hmm, then do you want to be a monitor?"
"Yes!"
"I also miss you as a monitor, but you see, discipline on and off every day. Why don't we make an agreement? You usually study hard and work hard to earn points. When you become the class leader, I will give you an extra reward 100 points. This is our private agreement. You can't tell other students that they don't have this reward. Don't you like that toy very much Let's earn points and get that toy back quickly, otherwise no one will get it if you are interested in it. Come on, let's pull the hook and work together for our agreement. "
Parents usually don't care much about their children's studies. How do they communicate with such parents?
Hello, XX parents! I haven't seen you inquire about the children's study in our place for a long time. Today, I will talk to you about your children. Our children have made great progress in all aspects since they came under our guardianship. They are more cheerful than before, they will be polite to others and study harder than before. Therefore, to cultivate children's study habits requires your cooperation. A good habit can't be formed in a day or two. Children are sometimes fragile and need your encouragement and support. So, if you have time at home, spend more time with him and encourage him. Only when parents and teachers recognize him will he have more confidence and motivation to study. We need the cooperation of our parents. I believe we will work together to make our children better and better!
How to communicate with children who don't like to participate in games?
Children naturally love to play, and there must be a reason why they don't like people who participate in games. Let's communicate with our children first to understand their personality and hobbies, and then communicate with their parents to understand their situation at home. Only by finding the starting point of the problem can we better communicate with children and solve the problem. You can say to your child like this: "Look, honey, if you took part in the competition yesterday, today's monitor is you. I thought yesterday's game was very interesting. Why not participate? " If you attend, it may not be a classmate's performance? "... slowly guide the children to tell the reasons for not participating in the game, and then try to get them to participate in the game.