In the early days of Emperor Taizong's accession to the throne, because Sui bamboo slips were not far away, he was able to make great efforts to govern. With more and more achievements, life is becoming more and more luxurious. "I like to hear what I want to say" and "I don't like what I hate". This article is one of Wei Zhi's worries and repeated exhortations.
Wei Zhi remonstrated: I have heard that if trees want to grow, they must have strong roots; If you want the river to flow forever, you must dredge the source; If you want to make the country stable, you must accumulate your own moral integrity. Although I am stupid, I know it is impossible to make the country stable, but I hope that the water will flow forever and the roots will not be firm, but I want to make the country stable, not to mention a wise person. The monarch holds the important power of the emperor and is in the supreme position between heaven and earth. He ignored danger in a comfortable environment, gave up luxury and practiced frugality. It's like breaking the roots and letting the trees flourish, blocking the spring and hoping for long running water!
In ancient times, many monarchs did well at first, but few of them persisted. Is it easy to win the world and difficult to defend it? Probably when they are heartbroken, they will treat their subordinates sincerely. Once you succeed, you will indulge your lust and look down on others. Do your best, then even hostile countries like Wu and Vietnam can become a whole; If you look down on others, your relatives will be alienated like passers-by. In other words, reprimanding the people with severe punishment and intimidating them with power and prestige can only make them avoid punishment as much as possible, and will not miss the kindness of the monarch. On the surface, they are respectful, but they are not convinced. Resentment is not the size, but the people are terrible. People, like water, can carry a boat or capsize it, so be especially careful.
I can really do it: when I see what I want, I think of contentment to warn myself; When the building is about to be completed, people think that enough is enough to make people peaceful; Considering the danger of being in a high position at any time, I thought of modesty and strengthening self-cultivation; Afraid of complacency, thinking that Jianghai lives in the lower reaches of all rivers; If you like hunting and entertainment, you will think of a limit of three times a year; Worried about slackness of will, always cautious when thinking of doing things; Worried that you will be deceived, you want to accept the opinions of subordinates with an open mind; Afraid of evil, I want to correct myself and repel evil villains; When Garn was in "People", because he was happy at the moment, he thought of not giving improper rewards; When imposing punishment, I didn't think of imposing punishment indiscriminately, because I was angry. If we fully achieve the above ten aspects and expand the cultivation of nine virtues, we will certainly get many benefits. Choose the good and listen to it. Then, smart people will try their best, brave people will try their best, caring people will give alms and honest people will give their loyalty. When all the civilian commanders are appointed, you can hang up your clothes and hand them over, so you can rule safely. Why think hard and be an official.
Second, a short story about making mistakes.
Honest children copy books.
Lenin attacked at the age of eight. One day, he and his father went to his aunt's house.
Cousin was very happy to see Lenin and dragged him to play together. They are playing hide-and-seek in the room. Lenin accidentally bumped into the table, and a vase on the table fell and broke. The children had a good time and no one noticed, but they were still chasing each other. My aunt heard the sound and ran in to have a look. The vase was broken. She asked, "Who broke it?" Cousins said, "Not me!" Lenin also whispered, "Not me." My aunt smiled and said, "The vase must have broken itself." Everyone laughed except Lenin.
Back home, Lenin lay in bed without talking. Mother asked him why he was unhappy, and Lenin told her about the broken vase. Mother asked him to write to his aunt and admit that he had lied.
A few days later, the postman sent my aunt a reply. My aunt said in the letter, "You are an honest boy. When you do something wrong, you can admit it."
Third, if you lose the bet, punish the story.
Xiao Ming and Xiao Lan. They are bitter rivals. They are already in grade one. One day, Xiaolan and Xiaoming made a bet. Run around the special playground. Whoever loses will be punished by another person. The game is over. Xiaolan got lost. Xiaoming asked him to go to his house at 8 o'clock tomorrow morning. Xiaolan went to Xiaoming's house the next day. Xiao Ming stripped Xiaolan of all her clothes. And put Xiaolan on her lap and whipped his * * *. And whipped hard with a whip. Xiao Ming squeezed Xiaolan's chest hard. Licked his ass. And put the chocolate bar in Xiaolan's * * *. Xiaolan is particularly painful.
He regretted betting with Xiao Ming.
An example of four people being punished by the teacher
Examples of celebrities being punished by teachers are as follows:
Punishment story:
Mark Twain, an American writer, has a rule at home: if a child makes a mistake, he will be punished as he deserves. As for the specific way to take it, it is proposed by the children themselves and can only be implemented after the mother agrees. One sunny day, Mark Twain and his wife decided to take their children on a trip to a nearby farm. The children had been waiting for a long time.
But the eldest daughter Susie bullied her sister Clara before she left. Clara kept crying, and Susie soon realized that she was too reckless to do anything. So she took the initiative to apologize to her mother and asked for forgiveness. However, according to family rules, Susie must be punished. Susie hesitated for a long time, and finally said firmly to her mother, "I will stay at home today and won't travel together in a carriage."
Mark Twain could not bear to say, "You can do it another way." Unexpectedly, Susie said decisively, "I must be responsible for my actions." In this case, I can always remember my mistakes! "
Punishment story:
One day when James, Roosevelt's eldest son, was 6 years old, his period came and he took two cousins to visit his house. James suddenly became excited. After several children met, they began to play with each other loudly. They are running around the room, very happy. Suddenly, James accidentally bumped into the table, knocked down a lovely model airplane and smashed it with a bang.
The adults rushed over and asked who touched it. The two cousins said in unison, "Not me." James hesitated for a moment, then said, "Not me!" " Roosevelt guessed the truth quickly, but did not expose his son. Even after the menstrual family left, he didn't show any anger, but deliberately alienated his son. He hinted from time to time through his wife that his son, a liar, didn't even trust his parents.
In the face of his father's "silence", James was very uneasy. The next morning, he finally apologized to his father and begged him to forgive him. Roosevelt smiled and said, "dear child, I have been waiting for this moment!" " Know that you are wrong, face it bravely and won't do it again. How could dad not forgive you? Dad loves you as before! "
Punishment story:
The daughter of Sun Yunxiao, a famous children educator, likes to sleep late in primary school. In the morning, after urging her to get up again and again, she always lies in bed for a while. If it's really late, just say "it's all your fault that I'm late". Later, Sun Yunxiao bought an alarm clock for her daughter and told her, "What time should you get up from tomorrow? You can set your own alarm clock.
It's amazing that the alarm clock goes off, even if you sleep until noon 12, you won't be called. "Not for the first few days. When the alarm clock rang, the daughter raised her hand and turned it off. As a result, she overslept. When her parents don't talk, she has nothing to say. After several times, she began to try to put two alarm clocks and put them out of reach. Within a week, she was never late again.
Another time my daughter went to summer camp. Sun Yunxiao asked: Is everything ready? The daughter said: it's okay, don't worry about it. Sun Yunxiao checked it and found that he didn't bring enough clothes and flashlights, so he suggested, Do you know the climate there? Are there enough clothes? Have you got everything ready for the evening activities? The daughter said impatiently, no problem, stop nagging! Sun Yunxiao no longer speaks.
A week later, my daughter came back. Sun Yunxiao asked: Did you have a good time? Happy. Is there any trouble? Oh, it's freezing. I didn't expect it to be so cold in the mountains. What else is there? It's inconvenient to do activities at night without a flashlight, and there's no place to buy it. What should we do after that? In the future, like dad, make a list before going out!
Punishment story:
When the daughter of Zhou, a famous scholar and writer, was in the second grade, she got 88 points in a math test and was very depressed. Jojo got one question right, but the teacher judged her wrong. Jojo is very unhappy and doesn't want to talk to the teacher. Zhou said, "You got it right, but the teacher made a mistake, which means you misunderstood it. As long as you understand, what does it matter if you lose two points? "
In senior three, Jojo paid more attention to grades. When she fails in the exam, she will be depressed and worried that her parents will punish herself. In this case, Zhou was enlightened from two aspects. On the one hand, helping her analyze the causes of her mistakes is nothing more than carelessness and ignorance. It's the former, but be careful in the future. It's the latter, just to understand the relevant knowledge.
On the other hand, to comfort my daughter, she did not take part in any extracurricular classes and spent the least effort. This achievement is very good. Once, Jo Jo asked timidly, "How do you punish me for not being in the top three this time?" Zhou smiled and said, "I will punish you for reading one more fairy tale book this week."
The story of five beatings
My father is very strict in imitating his parents. He must dress neatly. He must wear a school uniform at school. He can only wear sportswear or white shirts and black pants. He must be beaten if his test score is above 97, and his back must be straight. He must not disturb the first time when he is doing something.
Let me talk about my experience.
I am a man. He played basketball in the sixth grade, and I sat by and watched. I asked him to play with me because he was bored. At first, he didn't respond. Finally, he was really bored and told his friends not to play. I thought he would come to play with me. As a result, he pulled me aside, frowned and said to me, "kneel down and take off your pants." I have to do this. I only saw him sticking out a branch from the side. When he talked about * * *, I did it. He asked me to hit Ji and I said 1. He said it was impossible. He said it 30 times, and he shouted.
I just watched him slap me 30 times.
Another time I was at home, playing naked. He came back suddenly I knew I was going to be beaten when I saw him, so I had to give him a long ruler and kneel down consciously. I didn't ask me a few times this time, so I recited the three-character sutra. He said, "When you have finished reciting, I will stop and play while reciting. A very heavy one, I finally finished reciting it in 20 minutes. "
But he said, "Just kneel down for two hours."
Another time, I got 80 points. This time, I was afraid and didn't kneel down. I don't know. He picked up a belt and slapped me. That's it. He made me kneel on the ground and told me I was wrong a hundred times. This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
Six stories of punishment
You can write down the whole process of being punished by your parents or teachers before.
Seven "the punishment story of gambling loss"
The boy and the girl bet that he would be admitted to Tsinghua, or he would shave his head for three years. The girl refused to accept, saying that if he could get the first place, he would cut his hair short. Finally, the man was admitted, the woman cut her hair short and they got together.
Eight stories of leading migrant workers.
In today's society, this is obviously an impossible event.