There are many books on parenting. Besides how to educate children, parents also need to learn how to be parents. Simply recommend a few books:
1. parenting classics of French mothers
Douban score: 8.0
This book reminds us that even if we have a baby, we should not forget that we are not only a mother, but also a woman. We should be a beautiful woman instead of focusing on the baby. Both mother and baby are independent individuals, so we should not abandon ourselves completely because of the birth of the baby.
Control your diet, keep studying, and apply eye cream every morning and evening. Many mothers may worry that there is not enough milk after giving birth, and the result is high weight. Actually, the composition of breast milk is = water+protein+fat. Drink plenty of water and eat foods with high protein content, and control the intake of fat, so as to ensure milk production and avoid rapid weight gain.
2. A good mother is better than a good teacher 1-2)
Douban score: 1 book 9.0, second book 8.7.
The first book is mainly about enlightenment education, which is equivalent to the theoretical edition, and the second book is equivalent to the practical edition. Parenting is not only to let the baby eat and wear warm clothes, but also to pay attention to words and deeds. Author Yin Jianli has written three parenting books, each with examples. It is easy to read and understand.
It's easy to be implied in the book, regardless of adults and children-so I try not to label my baby, such as "disobedient" and "crying". Although the baby is small, it doesn't mean that she can't feel it. On the contrary, the baby will see it from your tone and expression. The more positive feedback, the more positive the baby will be, thus forming a virtuous circle.
3. "The most beautiful education is the simplest"
Douban score: 8.5
This book is Yin Jianli's third book on parenting, and continues to illustrate parenting with cases. This book is also a summary of the author's continuous practice. Through this book, you will find that the author is constantly growing and the concept of parenting is more scientific and rigorous.
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Ba Xiaoxiang Class: It is mainly about the quality education of children.
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