Family education plays a very important role in how parents educate their children, which directly affects their life. Junior high school is a time when children are rebellious, and many children go astray at this stage. So, let's share how parents educate their children.

How do parents educate their children 1 1? Interest is the best teacher for children to learn.

Those who love it are better than those who know it, and those who enjoy it are better than those who love it. Interest is the most important source of strength to promote children's learning. Many scientists at home and abroad have made great achievements because of their curiosity and keen interest since childhood, such as Edison, Einstein, Li Siguang, Chen Jingrun and so on. Interest can make the pain of learning sweet and add infinite fighting spirit to learners.

Protecting children's interest in learning should be as careful as protecting children's eyes, and caring for children's hearts generally requires wisdom. How to discover children's interests? Because "there is a deep-rooted need in people's hearts-they always want to feel that they are discoverers, researchers and explorers", learning knowledge is the instinct of children to enter school; So what hurts children's interest the most? Unprincipled comparison and learning utility, which are what many of our parents are best at.

Second, good habits are the greatest wealth of a child's life.

Good habits are like having a lot of money in the bank, and you have endless interest; Bad habits are like you owe a lot of debts to others, and you will accept the heavy burden of your life. "Habit is really a tenacious and huge force that can dominate a person's life. Therefore, people should cultivate a good habit through education from an early age. " (Bacon) Forming good habits is what every parent and teacher is trying to do. But it's hard.

Some people say that a good habit needs 2 1 day persistence. I have never done an experiment. You can try. So what good habits do you need to develop in your study? The habit of recording homework, finishing homework on time, checking homework, using little or no eraser, keeping homework neat, correcting mistakes in time, sorting schoolbags, and writing and reading correctly ... Lao Cao believes that all practices that are conducive to learning and children's physical and mental health should be maintained and continuously strengthened.

Third, the correct learning method is the best key to improve children's academic performance.

Learning is a student's own business. Many times, our teachers and parents can easily shift the responsibility of learners. There is such a story:

A group of children were frolicking in front of an old man's house, screaming all over the sky. A few days passed, and the old man couldn't bear it.

So he came out and gave each child 25 cents and said to them, "You have made this place very lively. I feel much younger. I am grateful for this little money. "

The children were very happy and came the next day, playing as usual. The old man came out again, giving each child 15 points. He explained that he had no income and had to give less. 15 is not bad, but the child left happily.

On the third day, the old man only gave each child 5 cents. The children flew into a rage. "As long as 5 cents a day. Do you know how hard we work! " "They swore to the old man that they would never play for him again!

Who do you work for? Smart old people pass on their children's motivation and exchange what they have given themselves for others. As a result, the children stopped playing, and so did their studies.

There are intellectual reasons for students' learning problems. According to people's theory of multiple intelligences, some people are super smart in logic and mathematics, some people are excellent in language communication, some people are outstanding in body movements, and of course, some people are also outstanding in music and art. As parents, we should observe their children's intellectual tendencies from an early age and consciously cultivate their outstanding talents in a certain field. Except for intellectual reasons, most students have problems with their learning methods. There is no fixed answer to what learning method is appropriate.

It should be said that the method suitable for children is appropriate. Different children have different methods. Some children recite fast in the morning, while others recite well at night. Therefore, teachers and parents should constantly discover and summarize their children's learning methods. With the method, children can enter the fast lane of learning, complete their learning tasks with half the effort and gradually become an excellent student.

Fourth, harmony. Family relationship is the warmest educational atmosphere.

Modern society is an impetuous society, and the relationship between husband and wife is prone to problems in a complex society. The contradiction between husband and wife is often compared to "which spoon doesn't touch the edge of the pot" However, when we are guarding children, how can we use the intimacy and harmony between husband and wife to bring comfort to children's hearts and protect their inner sense of security? I believe that every parent has a child who doesn't love them. However, it seems that many young friends have not come out of their children's feelings and have become their parents. How to keep love fresh in family construction is a problem.

I remember watching a movie "Why did you give birth to me"? , describing the profound influence of a divorced family on a child, makes people feel embarrassed after reading it. Parents are the first teachers of the children. As two "teachers", they should not undermine each other, but make up for each other's mistakes. Sometimes they have to play the good COP, and one side has to play the bad COP. In front of children, couples should appreciate each other. Harmonious family relationship affects children's physical and psychological aspects, which is worthy of our consideration. We hope that our parents here are a close and harmonious couple.

Fifth, companionship is the best family education.

In real life, we all have many reasons, such as busy working, busy socializing and leaving our families and children. Even with children, there is little patience to play and have fun with them. Many times, in order to get rid of the entanglement of children, we use mobile games to send them away. When children are quiet, we can play more easily.

Children's drama needs companionship, so that children can feel the warmth of family and the kindness of parents; Learning needs company more. You don't have to do it yourself. When you are anxious about your child's study, it is enough to watch silently. When the children do their homework, you can also take a book, whatever you are professional and the children like to read.

When a child needs your help, you should be like a teacher, don't be impatient, and don't use your academic level to measure your child's knowledge; When you are not sure about the solution to the problem, you can encourage your child to actively find a solution, or consult the materials, or consult your child's teacher, instead of being depressed or lost. You must set up a tall image in front of your children, be diligent, patient, modest, persistent and accompany them to grow up slowly. Well done! This is the meaning of the existence of parents.

6. Praise is the best education method.

Children nowadays grow up in honeypots. In this honeypot, there is more love, which comes from the infinite care of up to six elders. If you hold it in your hand, you will be afraid of freezing; if you hold it in your mouth, you will be afraid of melting. Therefore, children are willful, timid, impatient, afraid of difficulties and have no perseverance. In the process of children's learning, there is a wise saying: praise your children as you wish. Children are the future of our family, perhaps bearing the infinite expectations of the family, and his shoulders are also heavy.

Therefore, as a parent, it is indispensable to praise the children. Praise should also pay attention to methods. First, praise should be specific, and don't simply say: it's really good, it's good, but what you did well in this matter; Second, praise should also pay attention to strategy, not just good, but also point out the direction for children-you have done this very well, so it will be better if you do it again!

Here is another story: a prime minister and a prisoner told people about their childhood respectively. It's about sharing apples The prisoner said that once when he was a child, his mother bought many apples. Among these apples, there is a particularly big apple with a particularly red color. He and his brother are fighting for the big apple. His mother was very angry and said, "why are you so selfish?" Everyone wants a big one, so we should leave this big one to others! This is a good boy! " Hearing this, the boy immediately changed his mouth: "Mom, I want this smallest one and this big one for my brothers!" " "The woman was very moved, held the boy in her arms and gave him the biggest Apple Award because he was a good boy. The prisoner recalled that I lied, but I got what I wanted. From then on, I learned to use all kinds of deception to get what I want.

The story of the Prime Minister is the same at the beginning, and it is also about sharing apples. The difference is that when the children are fighting for the biggest apple, his mother holds it in her hand and says, "This apple is the biggest and the most delicious. You all want it. This is good, but there is only one apple, and it can only be given to one person! Well, there are many weeds in the garden. I will divide the grass into several parts, one for each of you. Whoever pulls out the weeds first will get the apple! " As a result, the prime minister pulled it out first, and he naturally got the apple. From then on, he knew that he had to work hard to get what he wanted. So he has been trying to do what he should do, and he has achieved today's achievements without slacking off his efforts. I hope our parents and comrades can come up with methods and strategies of praise and add strength to children's growth with your warm and inspirational words!

How do parents educate their children? 2. How do parents educate their children who have done something wrong?

1, so that children can clearly know what they have done wrong. Parents should be able to accurately point out their children's mistakes before criticizing them and prevent them from making mistakes again. Sometimes children don't understand where they are wrong and what is right, so making clear these two points can effectively help children correct their mistakes and avoid repeating them.

2. Pay attention to the key skills in education. When parents get angry after their children do something wrong, they should try their best to suppress their negative emotions and criticize their children skillfully to avoid hurting their young self-esteem. When criticizing children, parents can choose relatively mild sentences such as "Your mother is very sad to do this" and "We are disappointed with your behavior" to criticize children. On the one hand, it shows parents' expectations of their children, on the other hand, it is not easy for children to have rebellious emotions, making it easier for children to accept parents' criticism and education.

3. Avoid using the tone of command when educating children. In the process of family education, some parents like to take an authoritative tone towards their children, but such unilateral orders will have a negative impact on the development of children's self-esteem. It is easy for children to form a timid and cowardly character, while some children are prone to rebellious psychology and adopt a rebellious attitude towards their parents.

4, the child made a mistake, which is also a better way to delay satisfaction. You can let the child temporarily stop the ongoing activities, think quietly, and wait for the child to calm down before making sense. Such criticism is valid. Criticism can help children distinguish right from wrong, and it should be used moderately and properly to play its educational role.

How do parents educate their children? What should parents do in the education of junior middle school students?

1. Parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's independence and maintaining their self-esteem.

As children grow up, it is very important to give them more and more freedom and control their rights when they reach middle school. We can give them the freedom to make decisions on trivial matters first. Then expand the scope of what they may decide. With the growth of children's age and ability, parents can let him complete more difficult tasks, thus making children proud of completing tasks, more confident and self-disciplined. Giving children some freedom shows that parents trust and respect their children, and children will respect their parents more. Parents who do everything are obviously not good parents. As a middle school student, he has his own mind, thoughts and feelings. Don't belittle the child, trust him and be satisfied with what he has done. Conducive to children's physical and mental health.

2. Parents should often visit their children's teachers and cooperate tacitly.

It is best for parents to visit their children's teachers from time to time to find out what specific requirements teachers have for their children, so as to supervise and inspect them in time. Be careful not to judge the teacher in front of the children. Learning from teachers is not only about grades, such as children's learning initiative, learning attitude, homework, outstanding advantages and moral performance. Parents should also help teachers to know and understand children more comprehensively and deeply, so that teachers can know all kinds of "information" as soon as possible so that teachers can take corresponding measures. Only when parents are fully and objectively familiar with their children's advantages and disadvantages can they cooperate with teachers to help their children make continuous progress in their studies and become mature and noble in their thoughts and morals.

3. Parents should take time out to get in touch with all kinds of things with their children as much as possible.

In today's society, the pressure of job competition is great, but children should not be allowed to let themselves go. Every day after work, parents should take some time out for activities with their children, such as reading and discussing, shopping and chatting with friends. It is necessary to provide children with opportunities for various experiences and expose them to various things as much as possible. This can broaden children's horizons, enrich their knowledge, and make it easier for them to choose the most suitable development space in their future life journey, which not only provides children with opportunities to learn from their parents, but also gives parents an opportunity to know their children, which is helpful to promote communication and understanding among family members.

Parents should let their children feel generous and selfless care.

After entering middle school, children's physiology and psychology have changed obviously, which requires more care and love from parents. Of course, children should feel their parents' care and love for him as much as possible in "food, clothing, housing and transportation". But more importantly, no matter how serious a mistake a child has made, parents should have a tolerant heart for the child and let him feel the care and love of his parents. When children grow up, they need to try, and when they try, they can't avoid making mistakes. Don't use words and deeds that hurt feelings when criticizing children, such as "Why are you always inferior to your classmates?" "Go away, I don't want to see you again." "If you can't do it, don't come to me." Punishment for standing, kneeling, eating, going out, making phone calls, etc. The most valuable gift parents can give their children is "care"-generous and selfless care.

Parents must establish authority in front of their children.

Parents should be consistent in disciplining their children, so as to establish a unified standard of behavior for their children and establish the authority of both parents. If the father says he can do something, but the mother says he can't, it will make the child confused or opportunistic. Even if parents have different opinions on their children's education, it is best to discuss it in the absence of their children, and never argue in front of them.

6. Parents should leave some time and space for themselves.

Parents care about their children, but they can't be nannies, send their children to and from school, read books by themselves, and everything revolves around them, making them dependent. Parents should take the initiative to find some time and space and put their children aside for the time being. This is not to neglect children, but to create a better psychological environment for children. Raising children does not mean that parents should give up personal needs and communication between husband and wife. Using this spare time, couples can communicate more, and the harmony between husband and wife is very important for family stability. Many families quarrel all day and even divorce because of the discord between husband and wife, which greatly hurts children and greatly reduces the image status of parents in children's minds. This situation should be avoided.

7. Parents should put down their airs and listen to their children's voices.

It is a very important way for parents to understand their children's feelings by listening to them. Don't care if the child's words are reasonable or valuable. Put down your parents' airs and listen to them immediately no matter how busy you are. Don't wait until you are free. If you always wait until you are free, the children will not take the initiative to talk to you. Talking with children provides us with an opportunity to understand and educate children. Listen to the child's conversation immediately, the child will not be disappointed, and it will help win the child's trust, so that the child will be willing to tell you everything. It is also important to know what children are thinking. You can make him feel how important he is to his parents, and he will tell them more.