At this time, teenagers hope that they can be equal to their parents, and they also hope that they can be treated equally by society, environment and adults around them. They are required to have the same social status, and they are eager to gain the trust and respect of adults from society, schools and parents. They will have rebellious behavior and "oppose" their parents and teachers, but in fact their cognitive ability, way of thinking and social experience are in a semi-mature state, and there will be fierce contradictions.
The feeling that they think they are mature is that they have a strong sense of independence. They want to get rid of their parents and teachers in spiritual life and want to make their own decisions. I will completely ignore the opinions and suggestions of my parents and teachers.
Gradually, they don't want to confess to their parents and like to close themselves. I feel that parents and teachers don't understand them, and I feel dissatisfied and distrustful. At the same time, I am particularly looking forward to communicating my loneliness and loneliness with others. In this way, the contradiction between children and adults will become more and more serious, and the rebellious behavior will become more and more serious.
Parents must be careful when educating rebellious children. Parents must never use violence or parental status to ask him to obey your orders, so your relationship will become more and more rigid.
Zhengzhou Qiangbo New Concept School is a school that specializes in cultivating teenagers who are addicted to the internet, rebellious and tired of learning. Professional psychological teachers will formulate specific educational guidance measures for children's specific problems. I've heard colleagues mention it before. You can call the school website for details.
I hope my advice can help you.