First, children don't fall in love with kindergartens, and they cry every day when they are sent to kindergartens;

Second, children are timid, afraid of life, do not like to play with classmates, do not like to talk, and have no confidence;

Third, children learn three minutes of heat, can't persist, and will retreat when they encounter difficulties;

Fourth, children are spoiled by grandparents, saying that they will not change if they break their mouths;

Fifth, children have poor self-control, only know how to play games, don't like learning, and bargain when it comes to learning;

Sixth, children always procrastinate and forget things, and adults have to remind them behind their butts;

Seven, children do things without planning, no goals, no concept of time, muddling along;

Eight, too much appreciation education, children become vain, self-esteem, can only listen to praise and good words, can not listen to any criticism, can not tolerate a bad word.

solution

Set a good example

As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers, so as parents, we must set a good example for our children. Usually, in front of children, don't quarrel or swear casually. If necessary, it is best to carry the children behind your back, because what couples sometimes do will directly affect their normal psychological development.

Create a good environment

Try to create a good environment for children at ordinary times. For example, parents like to play mahjong at home, or like to get together with friends and drink at home. These bad environments will directly affect the healthy growth of children.

Be kind to children.

With the progress of society, children nowadays are generally smart, so they understand what their parents usually say to them, so don't get angry and hit their children easily. It is suggested that parents might as well teach their children in a way that their children can understand, so as to promote communication and be kind to their children.