Family education should be "rough but not detailed", and it is necessary to distinguish between "trunk and branch" instead of putting the cart before the horse. Parents' influence on children is complementary, and educating children is the responsibility of both parents. However, in the case of single-parent families or separation of husband and wife, children who have lost their fathers will lack their father's education. What should they do? Yu Meng believes that at this time, mothers should never fill the role of fathers in disorder, so that children can get in touch with some male relatives. Children don't have to come from their fathers to learn from men. Only in this case can children grow up healthily.

However, if the father is too "soft" and blindly "accommodating" without principles, it will definitely have a negative impact on the child's character growth. Especially for young children, because of the small contact range, the family influence is more significant.