I believe many parents know that the process of parenting is actually the process of their own growth, and parents themselves have learned a lot in the process of parenting. So in the process of parenting, what aspects do parents need to improve themselves?
First, parents need to improve their educational ability.
One of the best ways to educate children is for parents to be their teachers. Children learn knowledge at school, but what they learn from their parents is moral quality and how to get along with others.
Therefore, parents must learn good educational ability and improve their educational ability, so as to better educate their children, let them know more truth and make them better people.
If parents don't know how to educate others and their children, educating children in those old-fashioned ways will only make children more and more resistant to their parents. Therefore, they still need to improve their academic qualifications, read more books on education and learn more about their children's psychology, so as to better educate their children.
Second, parents need to improve their psychological resilience.
I believe many parents know that in the process of educating their children, they often get angry with their children because they can't stand some behaviors, but this kind of angry behavior is very bad. Then the best way to stop losing your temper is for parents to improve their psychological stress resistance.
Only by improving their psychological ability to resist pressure can they not be shocked by honor and disgrace when facing things, and can they not expose their emotions to their children. Only in this way can children be closer to their parents. Therefore, parents must cultivate their children's psychological ability, and their psychological quality should not always expose bad emotions in front of their children.
Third, parents need to improve their ability to deal with problems.
Before his parents become parents, he probably needs to deal with things related to himself, but after meeting children, he may deal with a lot of things about children. If you don't have good handling skills, you will basically make a mess of things. So parents must improve their ability to deal with problems and help their children deal with some problems.