Children's success is inseparable from family education. Parents' words and deeds are very important for their children to become useful people, and their influence is enormous. Parents are the first teachers of the children.

Environment will make a person and change a person's fate. In the current environment, there are many factors that will bring negative effects to students. Such as: social corruption, money worship, the temptation of internet cafes and game halls, bullying and extortion, indolence, low-quality citizen influence, and the cross-influence of bad habits among children; Parents go into a misunderstanding when they understand their children (parents always think that their children are young, ignorant, do not take their children seriously, and do not shy away from what they say and do, which brings confusion to their children. Parents should cooperate with teachers to create an environment conducive to students' growth, develop good behavior habits and cultivate excellent ideological quality from an early age. Here's what we did:

First, care and love children.

Children need the care and love of their parents and teachers. This concern should not be limited to academic performance or physical condition, but more importantly, feel the child's inner world with heart. Therefore, we say that this concern is silent and expressed through actions, so that children can experience and feel this concern from our actions. If children live and study in a good environment, they often get care, love, recognition, praise and encouragement from their parents, so that they will have a pleasant emotional experience, feel warm and happy, thus feeling the beauty of life, arousing their yearning and pursuit for everything, and stimulating their enthusiasm for learning and healthy self-esteem and self-motivation.

Second, respect and trust children.

Suhomlinski believes that self-esteem is the pinnacle of students' personality. Students' self-esteem can sometimes be transformed into self-confidence. A person thinks that he is no worse than others, which can generate a kind of learning motivation and make him equal with excellent students everywhere. Naturally, learning will be regarded as a pleasure, and we don't have to worry about it. We should trust them and believe that they can do everything well. We should even encourage them to say: You are much better than us. At the same time, we should respect them, give them equal status in the family, democratize the family, solicit their opinions as much as possible when dealing with some small problems, let them feel the warmth of the family, and solve some problems from an early age, thus enhancing their self-confidence and believing that they will grow up to be capable people. Children grow up in such an environment, and I think it will be very promising in the future.

Third, words and deeds affect children.

Parents and children live together day and night, and your words, actions and actions will directly affect students. Therefore, parents must be cautious when facing their children. What should be avoided must be avoided, and what should be learned must be given opportunities. And everything is words and deeds, so that children can truly feel that their parents are lofty, great and trustworthy friends. In this way, they will respect their parents more and be willing to accept their parents' teaching.

Fourth, pay attention to children's reading.

2 1 century is the era of lifelong learning. If you don't study for a day, you will fall behind. How can we develop good reading habits? We usually start from ourselves. Parents consciously lead their children to read books, newspapers and watch TV every day, and analyze and comment on news in time. Over time, children will form a good habit of reading, careful observation, careful analysis and problem solving, and have a strong interest. Parents can also take their children to the bookstore on weekends, buy good books for their children, read books and tell stories with their children. Form a reading atmosphere and gradually cultivate the habit of loving reading and reading good books.

Fifth, correctly evaluate children.

When children perform well in one aspect, we should fully encourage them to promote the development in other aspects. If there are mistakes, point them out in time and explain where they are. At the same time, we should encourage more and criticize less, persuade education more patiently and criticize less, and dilute shortcomings with advantages.

To sum up, as an excellent parent and the first teacher of children, we should always observe the children's words and deeds, carefully analyze the negative impact of the current environment on children, and actively take effective measures to create a good growth environment for children, so that children can grow healthily and vigorously. May all parents in the world become the best teachers for their children!