In my own experience (from the child's point of view), parents must be strict with their children.

warn

First time, warning.

beat

The second time, fight.

Confiscation of computers and mobile phones

Confiscate computers and mobile phones for the third time.

Children's mentality

When I was a child, I used to think that my mother was too strict with me, and almost all my demands would not be allowed. If you do something wrong, it is inevitable to be beaten. And I am forbidden to play with some so-called bad teenagers. If I violate it, I will be severely punished again. I was really disgusted at the time. I once thought about running away from home, but I thought about where a person could go. So I can only endure the so-called inhuman treatment.

The effect of education

Gradually, when I got to high school and college, I obviously felt different from others. I am far superior to others in both my ability to handle my own affairs independently and my moral quality. This is inseparable from my parents' strict education-so now I am grateful, even though I was disgusted at first.

The importance of family education

Therefore, educate children not to be soft-hearted, and don't follow the western idea that children belong to the family and have the right to make decisions-this is the East, even if that idea is true, it is not suitable for the East, because it must be decided by the big environment. You give too much power, so that when he is not independent, he is no longer in your charge.