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Reflections on parents' views on "how to let children know the rules" in class 2065438 13 of Mingren Primary School.

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Liu Jiayi

Calm down, we also have a heart-to-heart talk with him, hoping that he can actively restrain his desire to play games, control the time to play games, and not indulge. He told us that he was mainly worried that he would be penalized or given the title after playing the game halfway, and that he would fall behind. It is good to be enterprising, but we hope that these enterprising spirits can be used in study or physical exercise, not in games. When playing games, I hope to have a normal heart and not be too persistent. However, the children's ideas are still inconsistent with ours. This is a prominent problem that we have encountered in cultivating children at present. I think this problem still needs to be solved through the balance between love and rules, and it needs to be solved through continuous communication in the next life.

Peng zian

At present, family education is nothing more than the following four kinds. The first is doting. This kind of family only cares, but has no control. Parents are obedient to their children and agree to everything. Wrong behavior is never out of control. Here, children and babies have no sense of rules and do whatever they want. Many parents stubbornly believe that they can't control their children and release their nature. When they grow up, they will be fine naturally. The second kind of control, in the family, only control without care, is often very strict with children, and sometimes it is necessary to beat and scold. This type of parents usually think that filial sons are born under sticks. The third kind of laissez-faire thinking, parents have neither care nor control in educating their children, and belong to laissez-faire parents. They often think that they don't care whether they don't care or let nature take its course. Typically, many left-behind children in rural areas belong to this type of family, the fourth kind of intelligence, and this type of parents care for their children. Care and control are well done. How to care for the place to be cared for will be cared for, and the place to be controlled will be controlled, which means that there is a limit when giving love to children. Grow sturdily and set rules for children while loving them in family education.

Yu Guangxu

Thoughts on how to make children understand the rules;

As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. If a child is not bound by certain rules since childhood, it is easy for such a child to form the habit of being willful and doing whatever he wants, and when he grows up, he will become an unruly person, which will also have a very adverse impact on his interpersonal relationship.

Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's behaviors and habits of understanding and obeying rules from an early age. Then we must do this job well. As parents, we should first make certain rules. Love for children should be included in the rules, and love and "making rules" should not be neglected, but should be lenient and moderate according to the age, personality and living conditions of children, and should not be overindulged to cultivate children's selfishness, willfulness and laziness; Can not be too harsh, resulting in indifference and coldness at home, suppressing and killing children's nature, resulting in children's dullness and caution. This is also extremely undesirable.

Liu Xiaoyan

Feeling:

Today, I watched how to make children understand the rules, which President Guo Hong explained to us. I am deeply touched and benefited a lot!

How to train children and make them understand the rules is really a headache. After watching the video, I found that the problem still appeared on the parents themselves. For my children, I think I should do the following in the future:

1. First of all, when it comes to educating children, we must not be an emotional parent subjectively, but rationally analyze and solve problems.

2. Set an example, try to get rid of all bad habits in front of children, and ensure that you don't smoke, swear words and ignore any rules and regulations in front of children.

I think children's problems are parents' problems. I hope my children will become healthy, happy, clever and sensible children with the joint efforts of school teachers and our parents. Every parent wants their children to succeed, and I also hope that their children will have a successful career in the future. All future successes and failures can be traced back. Thanks for this video, it's like a beacon.

the Chen Dynasty

First, the rules are easy to understand and clear in content. Children can't understand complicated rules. It is better to do so, they will be punished or rewarded and tell the truth. What kind of good or bad consequences will this have?

Second, set an example.

Third, punishment and reward. Rules exist to prevent people from breaking the rules, not to obey certain behaviors. Once you violate it, you will be punished. We have well maintained the rules and can be encouraged. Fourth, correct the mentality and conduct the transposition test. We often treat our children as adults and treat them as adults. This is not correct. Every behavior of children needs our parents to carefully distinguish whether they don't understand or knowingly commit crimes.

Fifth, pay attention to the atmosphere. When we make some rules, don't make some rules specifically for children. Children can feel whether the environment is directed at them. If you specifically target them, it is easy to arouse their rebellious psychology.

Wang Yunfei

After reading How to Make Children Know the Rules, as parents, we all hope that our children will grow up healthily and happily and become a person who knows the rules, abides by them, has a sound personality and is beneficial to the family and society. No parents want their children to be unruly, unruly and disliked.

Every parent wants his children to be considerate and good-natured. In fact, temper and personality can be cultivated, and the key is to see what parents do. Be patient with children. Only parents can understand how much patience is needed to treat children. When a child does something wrong, parents should seriously criticize or correct it, and clearly explain the reasons for criticism. If he does it right, he should praise it, so that the child can criticize it in time and praise it right. Over time, children will understand what is right and wrong, distinguish right from wrong, establish rules, understand the truth, take the right path and become an adult.

Yang ruoxue

How to make children understand the rules

1 There is no need to give orders, and the exemplary role of parents makes children consciously follow suit.

2. There is no need for rigid dogma. Good rules are good habits.

Don't condescend, love and rules are silent education.

4. "Hook" with your child like your child's little friend.

5. Tell children to learn to be responsible and learn to make their own decisions.

6. Tell children that only imagination, potential and talent don't have to obey the rules.

Tell children that other people's rules are other people's business, you just need to be yourself.

8. Use love and rules to teach children to be human, behave and make friends, and guide children to grow, become talents and succeed.

As the saying goes, "Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang". Children need love and more rules. Love should be understood, tolerated and controlled. The child's heart is strong and the self is strong. Rules should be simple and specific, so that children will be willing to abide by them. Through this film, I learned a lot, gained a lot and realized a lot. I hope I can apply President Guo Hong's educational methods to my life more!

Zhu haishun

How to make children understand the rules

As parents, setting an example plays a key role in shaping character and perfecting rules. Establish good habits in family life. Good habits are synonymous with good rules. Carefully discover the child's potential, instill love into the child's dribs and drabs, and tolerate the inherent shortcomings in the potential. It is necessary to "moisten things quietly" and water children's hearts with silent love.

Establish values for children as soon as possible, and let children feel the importance of rules by means of rewards and punishments. At the same time, let children know that mistakes can be made, but they cannot be repeated. Remember to follow the rules. Rigid is the rule, flexible is the rule. Don't let rules destroy children's unique creativity.

It is necessary to integrate into the children's world and understand the rules in the children's hearts, good encouragement and bad correction. Pay attention to the opportunity to correct the wrong rules, grasp the details, and don't miss every opportunity to correct them for your own reasons.

Zhang Linxi

Parents are their children's first teachers, so it is very important to set an example. Parents' personality determines children's personality, which is warm and harmonious and can cultivate children's love. As parents, it is important to establish good family habits, correct values and outlook on life, and give children the power of example. It is necessary to carefully observe the child's every move and patiently guide the child to study, live and be a man. We should put ourselves in the child's shoes, think from the child's point of view, care about the child everywhere, get along with the child's friends and have a heart-to-heart talk with the child. Do a good job of praise and encouragement, criticize and educate if there are mistakes, and be a good child if you know them. Parents should also apologize to their children when they make mistakes, so that they can feel fair and just, and the children are willing to talk to you, which is not easy to make them rebellious.

Published on 10-22