Keywords: early childhood education
Early childhood education is the biggest problem for parents and families. As long as parents are normal parents, the first thing is to hope that their children will be healthy, and the second thing is to hope that their children will become adults. Although health is related to family environment, sanitary conditions and physical quality, we generally think it is a natural factor, not an education problem. Therefore, education is most closely related to human factors, and family education methods, educational concepts and educational activities have become urgent, important and lasting problems for parents to accompany their children to grow up in reality, for a long time and gradually. Children's education was not a problem at first, but now, due to the small number of children, high material living conditions, busy parents and intensified social competition, our family education has gone wrong, and many family education has gone wrong.
First, too much knowledge intake is not conducive to the cultivation of ability.
Today's children are amazingly knowledgeable. The preschool students are more knowledgeable than the primary school students 20 years ago. They can recite Tang poems, dance, do mental arithmetic, know many words, even speak foreign languages and know a lot of knowledge. This is an abnormal phenomenon in itself. The reason is the hype of all kinds of for-profit education in society, and the comparison psychology of parents who don't let their children lose at the starting line leads to educational distortion.
Parents nowadays have more brains than their children. If there are two children of the same age, their children can count, recite more Tang poems, recognize more words and dance better than others. Parents, especially mothers, will think that their children are better than others and have a superior mentality. In order not to let the children lose at the starting line, they put more money and energy into it, which made the children exhausted in study and play.
Preschool education is important to let children perceive the world and nature, not to let children know the world rationally. If children are given the obligation to learn knowledge too early, it will promote their growth, but it is best to let them have a relaxed and happy growth environment. We produced many prodigies in the last century, and were admitted to famous universities at the age of thirteen or fourteen. They can only be regarded as prodigies in knowledge and examinations, but we haven't seen many invention prodigies and inspirational prodigies from China. He may have been admitted to a famous university at the age of thirteen or fourteen, but so far we haven't seen any miraculous achievements of the prodigy. When he was young, Zhang Heng only often counted the stars at night. He thinks the stars are lovely, the sky is mysterious and the night sky is very attractive to him. Later, Zhang Heng became a scientist, and it is said that he also invented the "Huntian Seismograph". Zhang Heng's grandmother didn't force Zhang Heng to count the stars. Looking at the stars in the sky is based on interest and gravity, and it is by no means learned. Today's preschool education makes children too tired. If we educate our children in this way, our children may really lose at the starting line. We might as well use the concept of happy growth to cultivate children.
Second, being close to nature is a very important way of education.
An educator said that keeping children close to nature is the best way to develop their intelligence. He even said that "children's intelligence is declining now, far less than that of children 30 years ago". Although today's children have amazing knowledge, their IQ is not as good as before. A very important reason is that they are far away from nature, contact with people and man-made things, and get involved in society prematurely. Learn things they shouldn't learn too early.
Bringing children close to nature is the easiest way to promote their intellectual development. Walking into nature and getting close to nature is the best way for children to know the world. Nowadays, children have many toys, from Barbie dolls, bag bears, various car models, animal models, various electronic toys, various e-books, cartoons, and various playgrounds and trampolines. They are faced with a colorful amusement world, but they seldom go to the wild to pile and dig sand, and they can't see real chickens, pigs and dogs. Few people play with the soil in the field and the water by the river with their little hands. It is difficult for them to enjoy the sunshine and rain of nature as freely as small animals. They can't integrate their body and mind with nature.
Being far away from nature is the sorrow of human beings and the misfortune of children. Young minds are artificially isolated from nature, and they cannot feel the disorder, order and magnificence of nature. We can't transform nature if we can't get close to it, and we can't love it if we can't blend in with it. Besides zoos, botanical gardens, aquariums and the Gold Coast, we have more fields, crops, grasslands, forests, streams, rivers and lakes, farmland, hillsides, agricultural labor, and more wild insects, birds and rabbits waiting for children to know. This is the real nature, let children walk into the real nature and let them know.
Third, it is an important task for parents to drive away loneliness for their children.
Due to social pressure, busy work and many social activities, most young people nowadays belong to the fun group. In order to comfort the children, we have to buy more toys for them and leave them for the elderly. Grandpa, grandma, grandma and grandpa have become the main force to take care of children. Children also need communication, partners and parents. The company of parents makes children feel safe and warm, which is more helpful to the shaping of children's character. A survey shows that the crime rate of left-behind children will obviously exceed that of those who grew up with their parents. No amount of toys can match the company of parents. Especially fathers should take more care of their children. Studies abroad have proved that the father's personal experience is more conducive to the growth of children, the mother is delicate and gentle, while the father shows male characteristics such as courage, perseverance, tenacity and decisiveness, and the father has a positive impact on children with greater passion for life. However, because men bear heavy family income and social activities, fathers often neglect the obligation to accompany and educate their children. Family education in which both parents participate is perfect. In recent years, male teachers have been introduced into kindergartens, and the complementarity between men and women has increased the integrity of education.
Fourth, encourage children and stimulate their self-confidence and creativity.
Parents in China have one characteristic: their satisfaction with their children is the worst, much worse than that of parents abroad. In fact, children really need praise. Praise will give children courage and motivation, and it is also a hint.
Never say that a child is stupid, stupid and timid, which will make him lose confidence. In the long run, he will really feel stupid and timid. In fact, if there is no mental deficiency, people's IQ is similar, but their expressions are different. There is a story that there was a Li Yuanba in the Sui and Tang Dynasties. His father Li Yuan hired a teacher for Li Yuanba to teach him to read and make rules. If you teach Li Yuanba a word within three months, you will be rewarded. If you can't teach him, you won't get paid. A famous teacher signed up and taught Li Yuanba the word "nail". Before the exam, he was worried that he had forgotten to give Li Yuanba a nail. Tang Gaozu asked what the word "nail" was, but Li Yuanba couldn't answer. The teacher warned that Li Yuanba couldn't answer what you were holding, but he was very anxious. Li Yuanba blushed and blurted out "nails". Is Li Yuanba really stupid? However, he is a natural martial arts material with great strength. World-beater, known as the "first hero". Can you call Li Yuanba an idiot? We ask too much of our children, and we don't know how to evaluate objectively and encourage them in time.
We should attach importance to children's progress, their advantages and encourage them in a timely and appropriate manner. Let children be confident and motivated.
Fifth, educate children with love and make them full of love.
The more love a person receives as a child, the more love education he receives, and the more he will love and care for others in the future. Therefore, to love a child sincerely, care for him, cherish him and nurture him with love is to silently cultivate a person who will love others in the future. Losing your temper easily and being impatient with children will cultivate children's bad temper. Our love here is not doting, doting is not true love, it transcends the boundaries of love and is essentially selfish. Parents should lead by example, be old, be old, and be young. Teach children to share toys with others, share delicious food with children, know how to help other children, can't teach children how to hit others, how to grab things from others, and can't suffer outside. According to the scientific principle of love, love enjoyed in childhood and love education are very important for the psychological formation of love in life.
Children's family education involves thousands of families, children's future and the future of society. Although every parent attaches great importance to it. However, due to cognitive and social reasons, there are various problems in our education. How to improve our family education is a problem that every parent should constantly explore and study.