Later, because Gu and Sheng Changbai became close friends and went to Shengjia Bookstore to study together, their contacts became more frequent. Therefore, Gu also saved several times.
But in the original book, the two of them had no feelings when they were teenagers. Sheng Changbai's best friend was Qi Heng, not Gu. In fact, before marrying Sheng, Gu only met Sheng four times.
At this time, Gu was not only much bigger than Shanda, but also married (the first wife was Yu), and Gu repeatedly claimed to marry his first daughter.
Review the original "Know No", why did Gu want to marry her after seeing Sheng only four times? It's not just about making a good impression. In fact, through these contacts, Gu found that although Sheng is a lady, she completely meets or even exceeds his expectations of his wife in other aspects.
As the eldest son of Houfu, Gu has been marginalized in Ningyuan Houfu, but he has also been educated by famous families. The original book also mentions how his parents Gu taught Gu the criteria for choosing a spouse.
Therefore, Gu has never thought about marrying Zhu Manniang from beginning to end, and has never loved Qiu Nian who has devoted himself to himself for three years, just because Hou Fu's son despises their humble origins.
Besides being an ordinary woman, Sheng fully meets these standards put forward by Gu.
First of all, the Sheng family is a typical scholar, and all men are officials. The two elders of the Sheng family, Mrs. Sheng and Mrs. Sheng, are very strict with their children. They never believe that a woman's lack of talent is virtue, but let her daughters study, let them attend teacher Zhuang's class, and ask mother Kong to teach them manners.
Secondly, Mrs. Sheng is the only daughter of Yongfu. She is very proficient in etiquette, housekeeping, directors and others. Mrs. Sheng has been pampered since childhood and has been carefully cultivated by her. Even the king sighed, and Sheng and Sheng Rulan stood together. If it is not known, many people will think it is Sheng's first daughter.
Gu asked to marry Sheng Shi, and specially emphasized that the girls raised by the old lady are always good. After sheng got married, he arranged the large-scale banquet in good order and had a good housekeeping skill. The guests he met would also lament the only daughter of Queen Yong.
Finally, although the Sheng family is not the main family, it has developed quite well and has a little family background before Gu Xiangsheng proposed.
Moreover, Gu knows very well that he is already an important official, and he is in power. If he marries a noble woman and associates with others, the emperor may not be at ease. Since ancient times, the Lord of Gao Zhen has not only talked about it.
Therefore, Sheng fully meets the standard of finding a wife. At this time, Gu also urgently needs to marry a wife who can eat a good table and manage the family well.
As mentioned in the original work, Aunt Wei, Sheng's biological mother, is beautiful, but her cloth skirt can't hide its stunning color. Influenced by her mother's genes, Sheng is extremely beautiful.
How beautiful is Sheng? When wrestling with Sheng Molan, Sheng saw Sheng's appearance, became jealous and had the idea of disfigurement. Sheng Molan is beautiful enough, but when Han Liang married Sheng Minglan and saw Sheng Minglan again, he felt regret involuntarily. When Sheng's second son grew up, he successfully won the title of the most beautiful man in Qiheng Capital.
When Gu met Sheng for the third time, it was in Yuan Wenshao's home. He was very surprised to see that Sheng had grown into a great beauty.
Saint Ming Lan is not only beautiful, but also has an interesting soul. This is a unique scenery. For example, when facing the pursuit of Qi Heng, the son of Qi State, Sheng's completely different performance from other women attracted Gu's attention.
In addition, in the face of Gu's question about destroying his marriage with Yu, Gu was deeply impressed by his glib tongue.
The fourth time, Gu saved Sheng who met a water bandit. Sheng not only knows Zhu Manniang's character like the back of his hand, but also makes it clear that Gu is the most disciplined person in his bones.
If a woman is not only beautiful externally, but also has interesting soul and skills, which man doesn't like it? As the psychology book Intimacy says, at first, we are attracted by a person's appearance, and then by values. As time goes on, it is lifestyle that ultimately determines whether an intimate relationship can be stable and long-lasting.
After the marriage with Sheng, Gu had a bosom friend, and their feelings were even more indestructible.
As a woman, if you want to catch a man's heart, it is not enough to have beauty. Beauty cannot be maintained all the time. And there are many beautiful women outside the mountain. However, if you have enough skills and an interesting soul to be his soul mate, you can better grasp his heart.
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