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When children spit, we should first deal with it calmly and don't overreact. Don't rush to blame or remind, otherwise it may make children feel that this is an interesting game and even arouse their curiosity.
Apologize to the person who was spit on.
At this point, we can choose to take it lightly and apologize to those who have been spit out. This not only sets a good example for children, but also makes them realize that it is very impolite to do so. When they find that they don't get the expected response, they may feel ashamed and reflect on their behavior.
Deal with it with an accepting attitude
When children make mistakes, we first deal with them with an acceptable attitude, and then patiently tell them what is acceptable behavior and what is impolite behavior. In an environment without pressure and criticism, children are more likely to listen to opinions and their emotions are relatively stable. In addition, communicate with children and teach them how to express their emotions correctly, such as expressing their dissatisfaction in words.
Understand the reasons behind bad behavior
When a child has bad behavior, there is always a reason behind it. Knowing and finding this reason will help children to believe that you will accept and love them unconditionally, which will help them to get rid of bad habits. Because children want to be recognized by their parents, sometimes they even prove themselves through certain behaviors.