After parents set an example, do they participate in education together, or do they play the bad COP and the bad COP? Indeed, this seems to be another problem. Of course, this issue is also a matter of opinion. But in my opinion, the best way is that the mother is mainly responsible and the father helps to promote it. This should also be the most scientific method. In most families in China, mothers are the main force in educating their children. From the cultivation of living habits to the improvement of academic performance, mom is the main executor, and dad should understand her hard work. At the same time, the father should also help the mother. When his mother needs help, he can provide psychological comfort in time. As a reserve force, fathers should have the consciousness of being able to stand in the front line of educating their children at any time.
Perhaps in many families in China, educating children means playing the bad COP and the bad COP. Actually this method is not very scientific. It is easy to leave children with the opportunity to educate their children in this way, because this way determines that parents cannot agree in principle on many issues. For example, if a mother educates a child, a father must not liberate the child. Even if you disagree with your mother, you should communicate privately.
No matter how to educate children, parents' opinions and principles should be consistent, and children must never be left with opportunities to exploit loopholes.