Because parents have been working outside for a long time, many children lack the direct care and care of their parents, which leads to individual children's inner fragility and mental dissatisfaction. Over time, they become silent, introverted and unhappy, the most prominent being emotional grief, anxiety, disgust, resentment and melancholy. People should not look at money, have both ability and political integrity, pay attention to material things, and their quality is gone. Children eat well and dress well, but they don't have the education and companionship they need to grow up! No one can replace the love of parents.
In children's interpersonal relationships, they are very sensitive, unwilling to contact with others, like to be alone, withdrawn and autistic; There are some unhealthy psychological problems, such as unsociable, extreme, disunity, sabotage, easy to produce hostility, etc., which lead to bad behaviors such as fighting, gangs, lack of moral sense and sense of reason, and some serious people participate in theft and robbery, and finally embark on the road of crime. If parents don't want this to happen, they must go back and see their children when they have time. Every child needs the company of his parents to grow up happily, otherwise the child will leave a shadow in his heart all his life. I can't forget it.
Lack of family guidance in learning leads to many difficulties; Lack of parental discipline in behavior. In the case that guardians dare not take care of it, grandparents are old and children rarely do their homework consciously. Because grandparents can't read, they can't teach children how to learn and how to do it. There are not many teachers in the school. After all, there are several teachers in the mountains, so many students and teachers can't control them, which leads to your children's behavior of skipping classes and not loving learning. Is this what parents want? What's the use of making more money? Waste it on children who don't like learning?
Bian Xiao reminds parents here that their children are still young. For the children's future, try not to go out to work! ! If you want to go out, you have to wait for the child, okay? Otherwise, how much harm it will do to children's minds, and there have been many incidents of left-behind children committing suicide and jumping into the river on the Internet recently, and finally they even embarked on the road of crime. Such a good child, originally in a beautiful childhood and life, was gone.
Create a good living environment for "left-behind children", improve their unhealthy psychology, help "left-behind children" rebuild their self-confidence, establish a good outlook on life and values, and make them develop physically and mentally and become healthy social people.