Methods: \ x0d \ x0d \ People who have no clear goals in childhood and adolescence cannot have specific life ideals. Determined from an early age is essentially to cultivate children's mind, tolerance and courage from an early age. The so-called "ambition" is the standard to measure a person's greatness or mediocrity, and it is the most important aspect of a person's comprehensive quality. \x0d "ambition" is the yearning and pursuit in the heart. \x0d\ Family education is not only to teach children to read more words and do more problems, but to gradually make children form childlike "dreams" through examples and words during their growth. In the future, with the increase of knowledge and the expansion of horizons, an ideal of life that I have been fighting for all my life will gradually take shape. The childlike dream before this ideal is "ambition". \x0d\ A person who has no good ambition, no matter how good his intelligence, will and morality are, can't form a large-scale life, let alone make great career achievements. In real life, we can often see that many talents have good intelligence but become mediocre, because they are easy to be satisfied after doing anything to a certain height and stop making progress, so it is difficult to climb the stairs. \x0d\ and an ambitious child from an early age will never be satisfied with the status quo, and will always have the desire to pursue perfection and the highest realm; After some achievements, there is always the determination and spirit to go up a storey still higher. If such people fail here, they will succeed there, and the scale of success is often relatively large. \x0d\ Therefore, we must not miss the ambition of childhood and adolescence, which is more important than all other education and training, and it is irreparable to miss this stage. \x0d "ambition" must be taught by "Chigo" people since childhood. \x0d\ "Ambition \" must have been gradually influenced by "Chigo" people since childhood. The so-called ambitious people refer to people who yearn for and pursue greatness, not just people who achieve great things. If parents lack understanding and pursuit of greatness, generally speaking, it is impossible to cultivate descendants of Chigo, even if they have more knowledge, they are just a bookcase with two legs. Without the guidance of a strong educator, it is impossible for children to form a sense of sublimity in fine products, and their future development is mediocre. \x0d\ determines that parents should seize the opportunity to preach and induce lofty artistic conception in their children's hearts in addition to teaching by example, which can often play an effective role in "probation". \ x0d \ Valls is a poor child in the Netherlands, and he even went to work after finishing middle school, but his parents are worthy of being great parents who have trained Nobel Prize. There is a shabby hut next door to his house. It used to be the former residence of the famous European thinker Don John. Whenever a child encounters difficulties in self-study, his parents will take him to find this "neighbor" and tell him earnestly: John is also a child with bad karma. He used to be a tailor and a peddler, but after long-term self-study and hard study, he has made great achievements. Although he only lived for 27 years, he created a unique set of philosophical theories. By working hard, he can make a difference. \x0d\ constantly inspires us in this way, and Vals has made outstanding achievements in his later struggles and won the Nobel Prize in Physics. \x0d\ For another example, in Shanhaiguan, we can tell children the story of the Great Wall in Wan Li and tell them that the Great Wall in Wan Li is one of eight wonders of the world and the pride of the Chinese nation. Go to Beidaihe seaside, teach children to recite Mao Zedong's poems, and the charming scenery of "heavy rain falls on you Yan, white waves are sky-high" can make them feel cordial. You can also lead to the famous sentence "Look at the Sea" by Cao Cao, Emperor Wu of Wei Dynasty, which comes from "The past was more than a thousand years, and Wei Wu wielded a whip, leaving a legacy in Jieshi East". This situation, combined with this poem, depicts a beautiful totem that will never fade on the children's young mind picture scroll, inspiring them to move towards loftiness and greatness. \x0d\ Ambition is a requirement for one's own code of conduct \x0d\ Perseverance and perseverance are the most important things to realize ambition. Cultivate children's ability and habit to finish one thing from beginning to end. In study and life, children should be strictly required to complete everything they should do according to the predetermined plan, and never give up halfway. \x0d\ Cultivation ability and habits are very important qualities for a person. In real life, there are many people who lack perseverance and perseverance and often give up halfway. It is because there are no strict requirements since childhood that you can't persist in doing things when you encounter difficulties, or you will be satisfied when you reach a very low level. This is the taboo of learning to become a talent. It is impossible for such a person to reach a higher realm of life. To realize one's ambition, we should start from the following aspects: \x0d\ 1. Cultivate a sense of responsibility. Children must be responsible for everything they do. Children can't have perseverance and perseverance to complete it without responsibility, because there is no sense of urgency without responsibility. Nowadays, many parents say to their children, "Whether the book is read well or not is your own business, not ours. If you don't study hard, you will have no future and will suffer in the future. " In fact, this statement is very bad and pushes the child's heart away. We should make children understand that reading good books is not only responsible for themselves, but also for their parents, and more importantly, for society and the country. This is to cultivate children's sense of responsibility as people from an early age. Driven by the sense of responsibility, children will have perseverance and perseverance to complete their studies and will persist on the long road to success. \x0d\ Second, a great and clear goal is the foundation of perseverance and perseverance. The elder said well: "If you have a great goal, you should take your efforts as a rest." If the purpose of reading is not clear, how can you have perseverance and perseverance to endure the suffering of more than 20 years of cold window? Therefore, it is necessary to enlarge the "image" of the whole life process clearly and let children know where reading is and how important reading is to life. \x0d\ Third, in the process of guiding children to learn and become talents, we must not let them feel compelled, but cultivate their initiative everywhere. Any feeling of being forced will make children rebellious and cause a terrible vicious circle. Driven by rebellious psychology, children not only have no perseverance and perseverance, but even their immediate enthusiasm has been suppressed. When discussing anything, especially when studying, try to guide children to draw their own conclusions, and then let them take the initiative to do it. \x0d\ Fourth, keep close to people with perseverance and try to avoid depressed people. Don't discuss things with people with negative attitudes. These people always put forward many negative reasons to make you back down. Putting forward "smart" opinions to deny your pursuit will shake you and eventually resolve your perseverance and perseverance. If you encounter difficulties and twists and turns, you may be dragged down. \x0d\ 5。 Determination and self-confidence are prerequisites for persistence and perseverance. People who have no ambition or lack self-confidence cannot have strong perseverance and perseverance. These non-intellectual qualities are interrelated and complementary, and must be paid attention to at the same time. \x0d\ Napoleon Hill, the founder of American "Success Studies", put it well: "Nature often strikes some people hard first, making them fall to the ground to see who can get up, and then throw themselves into the battlefield of life. Those brave people with strong perseverance are chosen as the masters of fate. "