Many parents will face many thorny problems when educating their children, that is, children will have some inexplicable behaviors. In this case, parents should choose appropriate education methods. The way to educate children should be exquisite, and the law of children's growth should not be ignored, but should be solved with wisdom. Many witty parents make good use of their children's "three hearts", that is, vanity, curiosity and competitiveness, so how to educate their children skillfully with "three hearts"

1. Satisfy vanity appropriately

Every normal child will have vanity, and vanity will accompany one's life. Parents skillfully use their children's vanity when educating their children, which will not only become their shortcomings, but also become the driving force for their progress. Therefore, parents can give their children more opportunities to show off, satisfy their vanity, cultivate their self-motivation and greatly enhance their self-confidence.

Be kind to curiosity

Children's curiosity constantly stimulates their desire to explore, so various new discoveries and strange problems appear constantly, such as watering flowers with boiling water, saying that watering flowers with cold water will catch a cold. Although sometimes children will be confused, ignorant or curious, parents should be kind to their curiosity, understand the real reasons behind their behavior, and provide answers to their questions. Don't deny or kill their curiosity rashly. Making good use of curiosity is easy to cultivate children's curiosity, which is very important for the formation and development of children's good habits, attitudes and hobbies.

3. Use your competitive spirit skillfully

Everyone is competitive, in fact, competitive is a good thing. Children often show unprecedented enthusiasm under the stimulation of competitive spirit, and it is easy to succeed in doing things. When children compete, they will constantly adjust themselves and maintain an absolute advantage. It is a child's nature to be competitive. Parents may wish to give their children more opportunities to compete, be more encouraged and smarter in the competition, and let their children learn from each other's strengths and make progress unconsciously.