1, open it yourself. When parents find that their children's interests will affect their homework, don't ban them immediately. It's best to know more about the situation.
2. Take care of your heart. Parents should take good care of their children, so that their relationship will be harmonious and their children will not be rebellious.
3. Ask for advice. When disciplining children, you should sometimes ask others for advice to broaden your mind. It is best to strengthen communication with the child's teacher and understand the child's usual performance at school.
4. Observe communication. Is to observe the way children communicate with themselves. Many times, parents must go beyond their own roles and observe the problem of children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different angles and make limited accommodation.
5. Analyze and explain. Parents should carefully analyze the specific reasons for children's rebellious psychology and give full explanations, so that children's rebellious psychology will gradually disappear.
6. keep trying. Parents should always change the way they discipline their children. When children are young, they usually just talk and listen. After entering middle school, you should try two-way communication and listen to your children's suggestions. Once a method is found to be unworkable, it is necessary to change the method at any time and keep experimenting until an effective method is found.
Reasons for rebellion:
1, traditional ideas affect some parents.
2. Parents' mistakes in understanding lead to improper educational methods.
3. Parents and children lack two-way communication, resulting in ideological contradictions.
4. Some improper rendering of mass media is also a factor leading to rebellious psychology.
High school children themselves have been weighed down by their studies. As parents' teachers, we should patiently persuade children's rebellion and anxiety, establish a warm and reasonable family atmosphere and realize two-way communication. After all, communication is the effective way to solve the problem. Children have grown up and respect their every decision without violating the bottom line. Life is your own, and youth is your own decision. You can only grow up in the wind and rain.