1, set an example. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.

2. Environmental edification. Children should have a good small environment for learning. When studying, they should avoid unnecessary family chats, get together with friends more, and try to tolerate their own shortcomings. Look at the child with a magnifying glass. You know, there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.

3. Criticism and punishment. Criticism and punishment are both negation of children's thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means to wrong thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we must first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of children's thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive.