"Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" will affect children's growth and health. Through the observation of clinical children and the summary of psychological consultation, it is found that the mother is too strong and the father is too weak in the family, and children are more prone to anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

This is because in a healthy family, the distance between wife and husband, children and mother, children and father should be the same, in an equilateral triangle. This balanced family strength is the best soil for children to grow up. However, the father is too weak, and his role in children's psychological growth is "vague". The mother's absolute dominant position will lead to the mother-child relationship being too close and the father-son relationship being relatively distant.