Accompany children to study and cultivate habits, write homework and teach methods, go to school to see everything, play with children to increase feelings, and travel with children to learn more. ...
Nowadays, teachers spare no effort in this respect: leave enough homework for children to go home and finish it with the supervision and help of parents. Some teachers even ask parents to correct their homework.
It is euphemistically called: "Parents should spend more time with their children. I am giving you an opportunity to increase parent-child communication! "
Hmm! You're right, you're right, I don't understand!
As parents, we are also willing to do this for our children. Even supervising the "beast" to do homework has driven us crazy.
The problem is, we have to support our families, right? How can you have so much time and energy to accompany?
At this time, someone will tell you: "Time is like water in a sponge. If you squeeze it, there will always be it!" "
I dare not say this, because my waist is bad and I am afraid of pain!
However, I agree with the importance of parent-child company. What we care about is: How should parents accompany their children with high efficiency and high income in a limited time?
Actually, I want to say that good family education doesn't take much time. There is one thing we have to do every day, and we really can't live without it!
As long as you're not a fairy, you have to eat, right Even if you can't eat with your children all day, you can eat together every day.
Eat every meal with the children. This kind of company at the dinner table is the simplest and best company and the best opportunity for family education.
Good family education is just a meal!
My friend Lao Li is a "picky person". His family is not rich, but no one dares to say that he is "poor and elegant" because he and his children are very educated people, and it is not enough to describe him as "educated".
Years ago, my wife joked that her husband was too serious. At that time, they just got married and their living conditions were not good. Every meal is very simple. Sometimes everyone has a plate of fried rice with eggs.
But even if it is fried rice, Lao Li has to clear the table, and the husband and wife are restless.
In the eyes of his wife, Lao Li is a person with a sense of life. Even though the economy is not affluent, old Li Can has created a good family atmosphere.
After having children, this dining habit has continued, and now his 12-year-old son is also called "the child of others" by many relatives and friends.
Strong body, good grades, polite, educated and independent, at least among his peers, he is the best one. Who doesn't want their children to do the same?
"Even if you eat fried rice, you must have a stuck face." When we studied with Lao Li, Lao Li said so.
Yes, what a simple truth!
No matter how busy and tired you are, you always have time to eat. Adjust your mentality, don't bring your emotions home, and cook a meal for your family, even if it is very simple.
The family enjoyed harmoniously on the clean and tidy dining table, chatting about what they saw and heard that day, talking about the problems encountered by their children, talking about some exciting plans in the near future, and so on.
It's not hard, is it?
Perhaps the greatest wisdom in life is to live a boring life with an emotional appeal and a happy ordinary family business.
Eating is the most basic need of people. Eating with emotions will make your family happier and your life more leisurely.
It is this understanding of life that brings a good family atmosphere, and a good family atmosphere is the best family education.
Imagine, if we eat with a bitter face, what fun is there in life? What's the temperature at home?
How can a child who grew up in a family with no atmosphere to eat have a good attitude and a good outlook on life? How do you manage your future life?
In the final analysis, campus education is more about teaching children to learn to survive, while family education needs to pay more attention to teaching children to learn to live.
Eating is the most basic life.
There are too many things to teach children at the dinner table. It doesn't really matter what food you cherish and what manners you have. The most important thing is to teach children to love life.
People who love life will have a healthy attitude, be kind to themselves and people around them, and have a perfect personality.
Life is not easy, so we should teach our children to live, whether they are poor or rich, and a positive and healthy attitude deserves every child.
A meal, seemingly normal, with a bad attitude, will also have no appetite to swallow; If you have a good attitude, you can eat with relish.
Whether you love life or not can be reflected in a meal.
Good family education is not about how many books to buy for children, how many roads to walk with children, how many training courses to enroll children, how many homework to write with children, and how many places to travel with children.
Good family education is not doing things that consume too much time and energy, but eating every meal with children and making them love life as much as we do.
Good family education is just a meal!
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