Advocate honesty and responsibility
Teach children to express their expectations and commitments frankly and understand their responsibilities. Emphasize that you should be responsible for what you say, keep your word, and don't make promises easily.
Observe and remind
Encourage children to observe their friends' behaviors and words and deeds, and pay attention to whether they can trust their promises. When children encounter abusive words from friends, remind them to pay attention to this situation and think about how to deal with it.
fathom the cause (of)
Talk to your children and discuss the possible reasons why your friends are "not keeping their promises". Help children understand these possible reasons and learn to understand and tolerate from each other's perspective.
Develop communication skills
Educate children to communicate actively and express their feelings and expectations. Encourage them to communicate with friends, directly express their expectations for the fulfillment of their commitments, and seek solutions to problems.
Cultivate self-confidence and independence
Help children build self-confidence and independent personality, and don't rely too much on other people's promises and commitments. Teach them to rely on their own abilities and efforts to do what they say.
Cultivate a relationship of trust
Encourage children to establish closer relationships with reliable and trustworthy friends who are consistent in words and deeds. Help them realize the importance of trustworthy friends and partners and encourage them to establish good interaction and cooperation with these people.