It can be seen that parents put their minds on their weak younger brother and could only ask him to study hard, so he began to protest strongly. Deliberately avoiding the remedial class, casually taking my mother's pocket money to brush the live broadcast to reward, offending my mother. I was yelled at for my poor exam results, and I was so angry that I threw away another book. Stealing books from the library was found by the boss and sent to the public security bureau. The boss thinks he is smart because he is old and wants to give him a good chance to turn over a new leaf. However, he is as arrogant as "I just don't apologize". He just wants to pay for it and doesn't want to admit that he did something wrong.
This main performance makes the mother really wonder: why is the son like this? I can't control it at all, and I can't control it. It wasn't until Fu Xiao burned a family photo at home and accidentally caused a fire that everyone reacted: he was not rebellious, just eager for love, and didn't want his parents to only care about his younger brother and pay more attention to him.
In Decoding Adolescence, the creator wrote this sentence according to his previous "rebellious" adolescence: "When a child keeps distancing himself from his parents and clamoring for them to take this test, he actually wants to see how much their parents love him." No matter how many children there are, at what time, the most important thing for him is always whether parents can see themselves. It's just that parents are too used to judging whether their children are "rebellious" in their own way.
Conclusion Unconsciously, I labeled my child as "unfounded". There is no "hidden violence" in the postoperative wound, and the child was taken away by himself. For most parents, in the matter of "loving children", they rank second, and no one is the first. Everything is for the sake of children, and I am anxious when I have problem children. Those who can be overcome with money will not pass the buck easily. However, there are some cultural education, which will do more harm to children, push them further and further, and make them even less willing to be intimate.
Seeing that my son likes parties, he is afraid to give them to bad students and reminds him to "spend more time with excellent classmates", but his son doesn't listen. I have no choice but to ask my husband for help, hoping to take good care of my son and make him smart. However, my husband was beaten when he came back. The conclusion is that his son's mentality is more extreme and his parent-child communication is more anxious.
In response to the mother's confusion and worry, experts and professors in Chen Mo analyzed it this way: Adolescent children are in a rebellious period, and at this time, compulsory words are most forbidden in cultural education. We instinctively want to grow up. Growth is to decide your own affairs and not let others dominate you. When he heard someone give him instructions, he thought it was a blow to his development. He will only reject and contradict, and even solve his parents' teaching in a more repressive way.
Not all the teaching of "love" can really touch children's hearts. In the process of children's development into "little hands holding puppies", some methods have long been unreasonable and should be adjusted in time. If you really treat the child as a baby who knows nothing and knows nothing, limit him and manipulate him, the child should learn to resist as much as possible. Don't forget, children's problems always have the importance of their development. The so-called "rebellion" is just a necessary stage for him to move towards a more independent self. If parents don't understand this, culture and education are wrong, which is a difficult problem that changes and destroys children's development.