Many times, listening is a very effective means. For children who have their own opinions, listening to his opinions on matters related to him is a way to make parents and children feel relaxed. Parents need to master a principle, as long as it does not endanger safety, harm others or hinder respect, let the children choose for themselves. For example, if he wants to play football with his friends, he may not be required to go to the park with his parents.

1.2, teach children to choose and learn to be modest.

Parents may wish to tell their children often subtly that really smart people often shrink back for progress. If both children want to play with that toy, they are both fighting for it. In the end, no one can play with it. Why don't we take turns playing? Not only can we play earlier, but we can also discuss more interesting ways to play.

Stubborn and persistent are two different concepts. Perseverance is an advantage. Don't blame it for its stubbornness, otherwise it will hinder the child's success. So, don't misjudge the child. A strong desire for independence is an advantage. Parents should not deprive their children of this right. If children are really stubborn, it is necessary to correct them from childhood, but parents should pay attention to the way of spring storms and guide them slowly.

2. Children enter the "stubborn sensitive period"

After the child is 2 years old, his self-consciousness develops continuously and his subjective consciousness becomes stronger and stronger. He likes to say "no" and "I want it". This shows that the child has entered a "stubborn and sensitive period" and cannot be said to be a bad temper. He just doesn't want to rely on you for everything as before: dressing, eating and going out to play are all up to you. Their thinking development ability is limited, and they can't analyze problems and make correct judgments. At this time, he will be very wronged and disappointed, and his language ability is not enough. He will only cry in protest.

For children who are unreasonable, parents must restrain their emotions and patiently help their children get through it smoothly. If not handled properly, blindly obeying or suppressing will have a negative impact on children's growth.

Parents should set an example.

In fact, most of children's stubborn personality comes from their parents' personality genes, so parents should not forget to cultivate themselves while "transforming" their children. If it is difficult to give yourself an objective judgment, then you can listen to the opinions of people around you and reflect on yourself often.