Chinese-style "puppy love" is actually closely tied to the college entrance examination. Because Chinese parents are constantly anxious, they can't wait for their children to study 24 hours for the college entrance examination, for fear of affecting their college entrance examination results. Because Chinese parents don't know psychology or educational theory, they just need constant anxiety, regard their children as their subordinates and plan everything for their future.

They think that interpersonal skills can grow by themselves after they go to college. They think that they can grow up by themselves when they go to college for EQ. They think that good living habits can be formed by themselves after they go to college. They think that a good personality can grow up by itself after going to college.

Puppy love is not against love, but against love wasting time and affecting academic performance, so not only against puppy love, but also against playing games. So the problem is not puppy love, but the college entrance examination. So why is the college entrance examination so important in China but not abroad? Because there are many people in China, the income of white-collar workers is higher than that of blue-collar workers, so learning is more profitable than skills. So to get into a good university, so to take the college entrance examination.

In western countries, with few people and high blue-collar income, it is enough to learn a skill or move a brick, which is quite proud. Parents without knowledge will naturally be unable to train their children to learn, so it doesn't matter if they don't get into college in the college entrance examination, and it doesn't matter if they can study normally. Some people say that children have become obedient to their parents. When they are 30 years old, they will look back to see if their parents have watched their studies.

Everyone is a part of society. It's a matter of getting what you need. Puppy love is bound to be distracted by today's study and life and unable to make the desired contribution to society. This is what it wants. Can't give it, can you stop?

Many younger generations, as experienced people, often know that young and ignorant feelings are often paid without results. It is better to get involved early before the injury, and wait until the teenager grows up to understand which type he likes. Of course, there is pressure to go to school, but don't really quantify parents as such a utilitarian group. Are you afraid that your daughter will be abducted by the bad boy you think?