First, strict work and rest, cultivate good life and study habits from an early age.
Since my daughter was in the first grade, I have made the following rules with her: 1, stick to regular work and rest time, get up at 6: 30 in the morning and go to bed at 9: 00 at the latest. There are no special circumstances. From February to 10, you must take a nap for half an hour at noon every day. Because adequate sleep helps to improve children's learning efficiency and is also conducive to the development of children's brains. Don't watch TV from Monday to Thursday. You can watch TV selectively on Friday, Saturday night and Sunday afternoon, but each time it shall not exceed 2 hours. Watching TV has advantages and disadvantages, but experts have found that children who watch TV often will be passively guided by TV pictures, thus reducing their ability to think independently. 3. Consciously finish the homework assigned by the teacher after school, and check yourself first. Before going to bed every night, be sure to sharpen your pencil, tidy up your schoolbag and put it by the door. The formation of these two habits will help you to study better in the future. When the regulations were first implemented, my daughter would be spoiled and asked me to help her, but I insisted that she do it herself and only guide her at the right time. After a week, she can finish it by herself, and I don't have to worry about these little things anymore.
Second, listen to more stories and read more books to cultivate good reading habits.
When my daughter was a child, I insisted on telling her stories every night. Later, her father downloaded children's stories from the Internet and played them to him before going to bed. I took her to read children's books when I started learning Chinese Pinyin in grade one. After a while, I saw that she had been able to read skillfully, and sometimes she pretended to be tired and asked her to read a story to her mother. She read it to me carefully every time and finally asked, "Mom, do you understand what I said?" Every time, I will fully affirm, then add what she can't say, and then analyze with her what the story means and who the characters are. The cultivation of this habit will help to cultivate her reading analysis ability and lay the foundation for reading analysis in grade three and grade four. On Saturday or Sunday, I will send her to the library, let her feel the learning atmosphere there, let her borrow books and go home alone, and pick her up then. On the way to pick her up, I will ask her the story of the book she read today, who she met in the library, what happy things she met and so on.
Third, get in touch with nature and cultivate children's observation and sensibility.
Nature is the best textbook for children. As long as I have time, I will ride my bike with my daughter everywhere, without purpose or direction. When I meet someone who is interested, I will come down and have a look. When I see something I don't understand, I will take it with a digital camera and then come back to check the information with her. In the process of playing, my daughter got to know a lot of plants, animals and insects, learned their growth habits and life habits, and learned how to take pictures, which books can't give. I remember in autumn, I took her down the lake beach from Dawei by bike. She shouted excitedly behind the car, "Wow, what a beautiful ink painting!" " Look, the sky is blue, the water is clear, the leaves and grass are yellow, and the scenery here is so beautiful! I love it! "There is no doubt that she has been able to feel the visual enjoyment brought by the beauty of nature under the influence of nature, and the cultivation of this observation and sensibility is very important for writing a good composition in the future.
Fourth, use learning tools to improve children's autonomous learning ability.
In the first semester, as long as my daughter does her homework, I will accompany her. Because she just learned to write, the posture of holding the pen is not correct, and the words are always reversed, which must be corrected from time to time. This semester, I finally corrected my writing posture, and I know that it is time to write according to the writing strokes at the back of the book. But the problem is coming again. When practicing writing sentences, she always asks me some words that she doesn't know, such as front nasal sound, back nasal sound, flat tongue sound and rolled tongue sound, which often gives me a headache as a mother who can't read Chinese Pinyin. So I began to teach her to look up the dictionary, and now it's okay. Since I learned to look up the dictionary, I just need to check her homework every day, and I feel much more relaxed than before.
Fifth, classify and compare, and review what you have learned in a targeted manner.
Review the past and learn the new. As long as I have time, I will help her through what she has learned. For example, write a word "wave", then ask her to write a word with the same radical, such as "sea", and then combine the words "wave" to make a sentence, "Wave after wave hits the beach." And so on. Or ask her to classify synonyms, antonyms and so on in the vocabulary at the back of the book. This targeted review will help children to remember better.
Sixth, entertaining and stimulating children's interest in learning.
Children in grade one don't have much homework. I just want her to finish the homework assigned by the teacher, and I don't want her to participate in too many interest groups. I play more with her. Generally speaking, I will take her out for a walk after dinner. On the way, I will either have a word solitaire competition with her, recite ancient poems and recognize the words on the signs on both sides of the road, or organize what I see to say a short paragraph. My daughter is very interested and often says "Mom, let's say the word solitaire or something" as soon as she goes out. After coming back from a walk, I will jump rope with her for a while and let her judge and count. At first, she was worried when she encountered an addition other than 20. So I taught her to write down the number of jumps on paper and add them up. In this way, she not only learned how to add multiple digits, but also had fun, killing two birds with one stone. When cooking, I will ask her to help me with it and do something unnecessary. For example, wash the cucumber I washed again and put it in a dish with a specified color. Let her play simple math games such as "How many knives does it take to cut a cucumber into three sections and how many knives does it take to divide it into six sections", or let her compare the varieties of vegetables she bought, and she will be in high spirits every time.
Seven, diligent communication, timely understanding of children's learning and ideological trends.
1, communicate with children often, listen patiently, and learn to be friends with children. Every night before I go to bed, I will whisper to my daughter. Whenever this happens, she will hug my neck and tell me what happened in class one day. For example, who did something funny today, who was praised by the teacher for what today, and so on. At this time, I will guide her and ask her what she thinks when she sees other children praised by the teacher, and what she should do. Sometimes after talking, she will suddenly hug me and say, "Good friend, good mother, I love you!" " "This makes me feel very gratified.
2. Communicate with the teacher to get rid of the child's shortcomings. My daughter is timid and shy, and she is not good at expressing herself, which makes her father and I very nervous. We have been trying to change this phenomenon, but with little effect. Last semester, I tried to communicate with her class teacher. The teacher is very responsible. From then on, she was not only often called to speak in class, but also allowed to read ancient poems in class. After a semester of exercise, my daughter has not completely got rid of her physical problems, but she has made great progress compared with before.
Eight, educate children about love, so that children can experience the joy of giving.
Since my daughter was a child, I have intentionally or unintentionally asked her to do something for her family. After work, I will say, "Tong Tong, mom has been sitting all day. Can you rub her shoulder? " At this time, she will come and knock on me a few times, and I will praise it in due course. When I meet something good at home, I will choose something good to give to my neighbors. At first, my daughter will ask, "Mom, why do you always give good things to others and keep them for yourself?" "What do you think if someone gave you a bad thing, would you like it? So when you give something to others, you must give it the best, otherwise don't give it. " Usually I will take her to the streets to buy gifts for my family, and I will use my own actions to educate her to respect the old and love the young. My wife sometimes laughs at my performance in private, but the fact is: at home now, even if I just eat a chocolate, my daughter will give me half. When the little guest comes, she will consciously share all the delicious and interesting things with them. Sometimes I tease her: "You give something you love to others, but you have nothing or nothing. Aren't you sad?" At this time, the daughter will readily say: "it's okay, mom, good things to share!" " Sowing rice, we will harvest a golden season; Sow flowers and we will reap fragrance all the way. Only by educating children with love from an early age and letting them experience the joy of giving can we avoid cultivating selfish and narrow-minded children and enjoy the return of love in the future.
The first-grade children's learning has just begun, and there is still a long way to go in the future education. I hope my educational experience can inspire other mothers. I hope my daughter can grow up healthily and happily into a knowledgeable and positive child with the joint training of teachers and our parents, just like all her peers.