On this issue, I think we teachers in the front line have the most say. Without the recognition and understanding of parents, the support of education authorities at all levels as teachers' "parents", and the country's further clarification of the scope of applicable conditions and the degree of punishment in law, it is impossible for teachers to undertake such a heavy topic when talking about returning rulers to the classroom and returning rulers to teachers.
Does your child need discipline? When your child makes mistakes, are you willing to let the child accept the teacher's punishment?
The reverberation of the incident of "beating the teacher 20 years later" is still in my ears. Yang, the responsible teacher of Wulian No.2 Middle School, was dismissed by the education authorities for beating truant students with books, which really touched me as a teacher. It is precisely because such things happen too much that in the actual teaching management, teachers' management of students who have made mistakes has become tied behind their hands, and more and more teachers are afraid to take care of students and are unwilling to take care of them. In these vicious incidents, such as students or their parents abusing and beating teachers, teachers are insulted, injured, and even forced to kneel to students or seriously injured and die. It is not excluded that some incidents are caused by improper handling by teachers themselves. Except for those practices that deliberately punish students and don't respect them, most teachers punish students to promote their growth. Just like Teacher Yang in Wulian No.2 Middle School, she can completely ignore the truant student. However, she punished the children with a heart responsible for the students. Although her way may be inappropriate, there is no denying that her starting point is to educate children to get on the right track.
The ancients said well: "Without rules, you can't be Fiona Fang." But at this stage, each family has only one or two children. Children are the treasure of the family and don't want to beat and scold at home. They have formed their own style of doing things since childhood. When they make mistakes, they often get away with it at home. If the school can't punish and correct their wrong behavior, they will only go further and further on the wrong road.
The state proposes to give teachers the right of education punishment, with the purpose of making teachers dare to take the initiative to manage students, and truly dare to manage, be willing to manage and be able to manage. Of course, the teacher's education and punishment is definitely not corporal punishment, not hitting people and swearing, and there must be no behavior that insults students' personality.
Education and punishment should grasp the scale and measure, take care of and educate students as the starting point, stop and prevent the recurrence of students' wrong behavior, and let children grow up healthily.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, said: "Without love, there is no education." Here, I just want to say to all parents that tolerance is love, and strict requirements are also a way to love children.
Return the ruler to the teacher.
I was beaten by teachers since I was a child in college. Every time I went home, I told my family that I played well. I was beaten for too many reasons. Share a few here!
When I was in primary school, I happened to meet the cancellation of the village school. We go to school in the town. In the first week, I heard that the teacher in the school's moral education department was particularly painful to beat people, and the students were afraid of him. Later, at two o'clock in the evening, several classmates and I went out from the dormitory to play the story of the Three Kingdoms. (I live too far from home at school) The boarding teacher checked the bed at 2: 30 and found us. The head teacher found each of us in the game hall at four o'clock. Then take us back to school to sleep. He said he would hand us over to the moral education office the next day. As soon as I heard this, I understood. I ran out of the campus early the next morning. But I don't know where to go after I go out. I can only go home. I just got home and haven't figured out how to tell my family. My head teacher and math teacher came home the next day. When they saw me, I obviously felt that they were relieved Tell my mother what's going on, let my mother educate me first today and pick me up for school tomorrow morning. I don't want to mention the photos after they left. At half past six the next morning, our math teacher came to pick me up on his motorcycle.
In junior high school, school teachers don't do homework, don't attend classes, quarrel with English teachers, fight with classmates, and lend usury at school. In the third grade, a classmate we played with was bullied by a classmate in the county, so we made an appointment to play with them. Things went to the police station and were taken to the police station. My mother and the class teacher (female) went to the police station to meet people. The police said I was the mastermind who sent me to juvie. My mother has no idea and has no reaction. As soon as my teacher heard this, he started hitting me, pinching my face and pushing my face twice. I've tried everything. I'm her own son. My mother came to Indiana. After a while, the head teacher said, "Let me take this child back to school for education. I can handle it. " . In this way, I was taken back to school by her. After this time, I was scared and became a good boy. The head teacher helps me study and find information every day. Finally, I was admitted to the third middle school in our county.
After graduating from high school. Senior one and senior two were punished several times by the school for gambling and surfing the internet at school. On the night of the swearing-in meeting one hundred days before the college entrance examination for senior three, I turned out the campus to play League of Legends online and was found by my teacher. Once my head teacher was a strong biology teacher, and he didn't punish me (being beaten at night) in class the next day. First, flat support, then stance, then push-ups, then squats. So I kept doing it. He called me for lunch. I don't know how I experienced that day. After dinner in the afternoon, he began to give me ideological education and tell me some of his experiences. Then I began to supervise my study. His words are: you must try. Anyway, there are still 100 days.
Finally, with the efforts of that 100 day, I was admitted to a university. Not so good, but I went to college.
Apart from these three things, I was deeply impressed. Others were slapped, spanked, kicked and slapped. I didn't write it because there were too many. Now that I have graduated for two years, I am very grateful to all the teachers who beat me and scolded me, because without them, I can't go to college and my health is not good. Maybe nobody wants me.
History will not go backwards, and neither will education.
"Return the ruler to the classroom, return the ruler to the teacher", which may be the voice of too many teachers. There are different opinions on the dispute of rulers, and there are also fierce confrontations with "no" However, many teachers have demonstrated this shocking topic with their own blood and tears. The ending is self-evident, and everyone can analyze and understand it by themselves.
I want to ask you: Dear teacher, I will give you a ruler. what do you use it for? Give you a ruler, what can you do?
Since ancient times, rulers have given teachers too many meanings. Six-point ruler symbolizes the majesty and respect of teachers, and the story of talents under the ruler has been circulating for a long time.
According to the book, Zou Taofen recited in front of his father, and there was a ruler on the desk. Sometimes he can't recite it, and his palm is swollen like a mature silk silkworm, while his mother cries and says "well played". His strict family education finally made him a great success. Although the story can't be verified, the ruler is really famous.
With the development and progress of the times, people's thoughts have undergone earth-shaking changes, and the bad habits of private schools have gradually withdrawn from the historical stage, and the "ruler" that students can't forget has also vanished.
However, with the in-depth development of reform and the blending of Chinese and Western civilizations, some decadent and backward ideas are also impacting the campus, and students violate the law and discipline from time to time. Xiong Haizi phenomenon has brought difficulties to school management. Teachers are in a dilemma because they can't beat and scold.
Faced with the dilemma of teaching, the teacher called for the warning of being late to be returned to the teacher and the ruler to be returned to the classroom. Some teachers tried their best and fell into a struggle in front of the rulers.
20 19 in may, some netizens posted that there was a suspected "teacher corporal punishment of students" in the second experimental primary school of a county in Linyi, Shandong province, and "a child was spanked 100 with more sticks". Photos posted on the Internet show that the child's buttocks are red and swollen in a large area. Soon after, a county education and sports bureau reported that the teachers involved were administratively detained according to law and expelled from the education department. Painful cases like this happen from time to time, and as teachers, we are heartbroken.
Coincidentally, such a "ruler" tragedy happened around the author.
A young teacher has a strong sense of teaching responsibility. One day in class, Xiong Haizi repeatedly violated discipline in the classroom. In a rage, the teacher hit Xiong Haizi's hand several times with a bamboo pointer for education. When the little guy came home, the parents saw that the child's hand was red and asked if it was caused by the teacher. As a result, parents and relatives swarmed into the school theory. As a result, although the teacher kept his job, he paid a heavy price of tens of thousands.
Teacher, will you hold the ruler higher? Educator Tao Xingzhi said, "You have Watt under your pointer, Newton in your cold eyes, and Edison in your ridicule." As teachers, we really need to understand.
Teacher: We should fear a ruler. Here is a ruler. What dare you do with it?
1, legally binding. There are laws to follow, and there are laws to follow, which is the foundation of family governance. And we teachers, the largest group of intellectuals, just want to abide by the law. The law on the protection of minors is like a sword hanging high, giving you a ruler. Who will protect you if you accidentally cross the line? There is nothing in the Teacher Law that allows you to practice a ruler! Numerous examples show that the ruler ultimately hurts himself.
2. Parents connive. Although not comprehensive, everyone has a doting heart. Children are the pride of parents, and mistakes are inevitable. Behind Xiong Haizi are the parents of the bear. When the teacher lifts the ruler, the biggest obstacle is not Xiong Haizi, but the parents of the giant bear behind him! Some parents said that my child violated discipline and the teacher casually "hit". Teacher, can you try?
3, the teacher's morality is not allowed. Teachers, as teachers, are very respected and exemplary. We should set an example of civilization. All departments expressly prohibit teachers from corporal punishment of students. And we ourselves are intoxicated with the dream of the "ruler".
I will give you a ruler. What dare you do?
Conclusion:
When my son was in junior high school, one day I received a phone call at a client's home: I am the head teacher, are you the child's parents? Well, I am! I'm going to hit your child, okay? I said without hesitation: fight! The teacher was surprised and asked, Really? I said: since you want to hit him, you must have your reasons.
Later, my son asked me: I didn't expect my father to agree with the teacher to hit me! The teacher broke the broken broom handle. I said: I am not used to you at home, and I will not protect you at school. Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established.
Now my son is the director of the political department of the court and has only worked for one year.
My son and I are father and son. When joking, he will call me "brother". During adolescence, I talked to him about sex; When I went to college, I told him how to make a girlfriend, how to be a responsible man and how to choose a suitable partner. My son graduated successfully and married a classmate. I spent the rebellious and confused period of youth with him, benefiting from the seamless cooperation between the school and parents.
At the beginning of our generation, most of the descendants were only children and grew up with the love of a group of old people. They are not only bullies at home, but also hope to get the same treatment at school. I want my child to become a phoenix, but I don't want to be beaten by wind and rain. As a teacher, I hope that peaches and plums are everywhere, and every promising student is the pride of the teacher. Regrettably, these children who have not grown up can't stand any grievances. If they are a little rough, they will cry for their parents. Parents won't let their teachers go, and teachers have to let themselves go. If they are serious, they may lose their jobs.
Alas. . . I am not a teacher. I feel wronged for my present teacher.
At that time, several of us were not punished by the teacher. Which parent went to the teacher to take it out on their children? But we are stronger than today's children. We are prepared for all kinds of blows. We won't jump off a building to commit suicide easily. We are more satisfied. We don't have that much vanity. We worship scientists, generals and people who have made contributions to our country. We will not worship blindly.
Of course, the "ruler" I am talking about here is not the tool that everyone thinks of to punish students.
We are a fate that attaches great importance to education. In ancient times, there were words such as "children don't blame the godfather", "children don't learn to break the loom" and "teachers are lazy if they are lax in teaching". From these ancient teachings handed down, we know that educating children is related to the prosperity of a famous nation.
Teachers not only have the responsibility of "teaching and dispelling doubts", but also have the responsibility of teaching and educating people. Parents should cooperate with teachers to provide a living environment conducive to their healthy growth.
Nowadays, people pay more attention to children's education than ever before. Having a long-cherished son and a long-cherished daughter has become the long-cherished wish of every parent.
Let the children not lose at the starting line and become the consensus of all parents.
A child who has just turned three years old has begun to step on the competitive field of life. Rich people send their children to private kindergartens, where they will get all-round intellectual development and training; Ordinary people, mostly go to public kindergartens. Although the cost of public kindergartens is not high, teachers basically do not teach children knowledge.
Because the national policy stipulates that children in kindergartens have no teaching tasks.
However, after three years, the gap between children who graduated from different kindergartens will be there.
Children in private kindergartens, such as English, pinyin, mathematics, calligraphy, painting and reading, can be said to have mastered the knowledge that first-year primary school students should master.
Children in public kindergartens, except for playing for three years, are inferior to those who graduated from private kindergartens in knowledge reserve.
So now there is a special stage: young convergence. In other words, what is the transition from kindergarten to primary school? What kind of knowledge and skills should children have at this time?
In contrast, the Ministry of Education clearly stipulates that children in kindergartens should not have academic tasks, but should also give them a happy childhood.
The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. When children in public kindergartens don't prepare in advance, in the first grade, they will soon find that the gap with children in private kindergartens will become wider and wider.
Why is this happening? There should be errors in the connection of education. What knowledge should preschool children master? Is physical and mental health important, or is it important to master the knowledge that can be learned in the future?
In fact, childhood is really important, and the physical and mental health of childhood is far more important than being ahead.
If we return the ruler to the classroom and the teacher, it will give the teachers the dignity and majesty they deserve, let them give full play to their subjective initiative in teaching and educating people, and use the sense of responsibility of "preaching and teaching to solve doubts" when facing children in different kindergartens to seriously review the knowledge that first-grade children should master.
The main purpose is to keep up with the teaching progress for those children who have not taken part in make-up lessons in advance. Then, this phenomenon of running ahead will be curbed. Only in this way can we truly realize the wish of giving children a happy childhood.
Respecting teachers and attaching importance to education is the glorious tradition of our nation. Only by putting education into practice and giving it the seriousness and authority it deserves can we ensure the healthy growth of the next generation.
And around us, various cram schools and training institutions have sprung up like mushrooms after rain. These institutions are a mixture of good and evil, and the good and the bad are intermingled. They are actually for profit under the guise of training.
Parents pay not only the pressure of money, but also the double test of time and energy. Children have only mastered a little knowledge through a few short classes, mainly to meet the needs of young convergence.
As an experienced person, everyone should know that as a first-grade child, learning pinyin, mathematics, literacy and English are all children's courses. Compared with after-school systematic learning, pre-school enlightenment knowledge is really not absolute or necessary.
If, in our primary education, we can take some time to systematically let children learn the knowledge that kindergarten children are catching up with now, then we will put an end to it from the source: let children not lose at the starting line! Such a deformed educational concept.
Education is not everything, and appropriate punishment should be retained.
Children are like small trees. Without pruning and righting, it will not grow into a "towering tree."
Now, our children are spoiled by "family and society" and appear "potential danger".
So I think it is very necessary to "return the ruler to the classroom and the ruler to the teacher".
National conditions vary from country to country. Don't think that a good happy education abroad is suitable for China. Happy education depends on self-awareness. Teachers teach teachers and students learn from students. Quality education is not enough. Sign up for more remedial classes and learn more skills. Educate people first. After thousands of years of education in China, a stick makes a dutiful son, and a strict teacher makes a noble apprentice. Rulers are not used for corporal punishment, but for punishment, which requires students to have awe. Why are children so difficult to manage nowadays? Without awe, teachers and parents have no dignity and can't stop children. The appropriate punishment is to tell children that they have to pay for doing something wrong, not to make them feel that doing something wrong is nothing. There is another sentence to remember, loving mothers often fail, and blindly doting on them can't cultivate outstanding talents, just flowers in the greenhouse.
I agree that the ruler should be put back in the classroom, but it must be moderately affirmed!
Einstein said: Only love is the best teacher, which far exceeds the sense of responsibility.
We educators regard students as their own children, which will have different effects. This is the most profound experience I have had in education for nearly 40 years.
I don't know if my family is my son. My son is very naughty. My son is often beaten in elementary school, junior high school and senior high school. The most vivid time I remember is in Shenyang No.4 Middle School. My son asked his teacher to hit me. My daughter-in-law told me that I didn't go to school I told my daughter-in-law that the teacher hates iron and does not produce steel. It is also for the sake of children that a good teacher can do this, which shows that the teacher is responsible and can completely ignore it. No matter what the cost is, why is the teacher so angry and beat the students? My daughter-in-law listened to me, and my son did well in the college entrance examination. He went to a very good university. He studied PhD 2 this year, and his future employment is also very good. I also talked to my son about this during the Spring Festival this year. Now my son is very grateful to the teacher for his strict education at that time, and I am also very grateful to him. As long as the teacher disciplines the child several times in good faith, it doesn't matter, spoiling the child is not a good thing.