Speaking of children's psychological education, I believe that every parent wants to educate their children well, and everyone has his own set of methods, but some methods seem to have no problem and are all for the sake of children, but is this really the case? Let's start with the following dialogue.

Child: Mom, I'm tired.

Mom: How can you be tired? You just took a nap.

Child: (loudly) I'm just tired.

Mom: Stop fooling around and go out for a while.

Maybe everyone will see a problem. Our parents always deny their children's mood from their own point of view. It seems to be saying to children: don't trust your feelings, just do what I mean. You must have misunderstood. In fact, you should put yourself in others' shoes. Say that, what do you want most? For example:

Husband: (going home) I'm really tired after working all day.

Wife: What are you tired of? You have been sitting there all day.

Think about your mood at this time? Look at this again.

Husband: (going home) I'm really tired after working all day.

Wife: I can hear from what you said that you are really tired today.

Feel it, needless to say, I also know that the mood at this time is heaven and earth. In fact, isn't the child?

Child: Mom, I'm tired.

Mom: Honey, I can see that you are really tired.

Child: I'm tired of running around and playing with Xiaoming in the morning.

Mom: Well, mom really has something important to go out, so you are not at ease at home. Mom promises to finish things in the shortest time when you go out, okay?

Child: OK, let's come back early.

Mom: OK.

Maybe all the solutions to the problem are as simple as that, so that children can feel that their mother understands me and things will be solved easily. Therefore, the most important thing for us to change children's mental health is to help them express their feelings. Maybe they can't express their feelings well when they are young, so parents should simply express their feelings after their children express their emotions and let them know that we can understand their feelings. I'll give you another scene to think about what you usually do. What should you do in the future?

Walking into the mall in winter:

Child: Mom, I'm hot. I'm going to take off my clothes.

What do you usually do:

What do you think we should do now?

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