In the face of children's personality, the first thing to do is to guide the situation and carry out targeted education according to children's own characteristics. After all, every child has different characteristics.
The standard for measuring children is not unique, so education should not follow the footsteps of others. What we have to do is to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. So I think it is necessary to educate children according to their personality.
I don't know if you have seen this movie about success, big head son and small head father. I looked at it and was deeply touched. Everyone has different development space, so why rush to take the road that others have taken?
This film also reflects the problems of contemporary education. Many people regard success as the only criterion to measure academic qualifications, but no one can define the scope of success.
Are you successful as a scientist? What's the use of copying children as Newton, Einstein and Edison? These people are really top notch in their field.
But that doesn't mean they are completely successful. Everyone's growing environment and space are different, so we should choose the way according to our own situation. This is especially true for children's education.
Some children are born with a strong sense of music They should have let her learn music according to her personality, but they just want her to be a writer. Isn't this the place where there is nothing to do!
Therefore, it is very important to educate children according to their personality. Children have different personalities and different acceptable ways and means. It is the most important place to respect their nature and cultivate them well.
Educating a child according to his personality may not make her a successful person. But at least in her own mind, she is the most special and successful one.
Education according to children's personality, whether emotional intelligence or self-confidence, children will be stronger and better.