Interest in learning is the motivation of children's conscious learning, and interest is the best teacher. If children have a strong interest in learning, they will naturally not regard learning as a chore.

We often see that some children are very interested in computers, and they are willing to take the initiative to read many books about computers, which will greatly improve their playing habits. Therefore, we should always find out the interests of children, guide and cultivate them, and promote the healthy development of children.

(2) Scientific and strict education

Learn to guide, strictly educate and pay attention to practical results. Generally speaking, it is a combination of hard and soft, with emphasis on motivation. "Soft" means inspiring and inspiring children, while "hard" means strict education. Strict education is not dogmatism, not death control, but grasping the right things that children are willing to do, not relaxing, not discounting, not compromising, and paying attention to actual results.

Families should strictly discipline children to do the right things, which will form a good family relationship, and doting on children and letting themselves go is an important reason for the bad family relationship.

(3) the cultivation of potential.

It is very important to tap the potential and cultivate certain interests, which is very important for the transformation of naughty children. Let children gradually learn to discover and develop their own strengths and advantages, and the strengths of a child's knowledge, ability, emotion and will are displayed and affirmed, which is an important breakthrough development in children's growth.

Every child has special skills, talents and potential. As long as we pay attention, we will always find some talents and specialties of children. As long as we give guidance and encouragement, children's interest will be greatly increased, thus diverting attention and putting play in a secondary position.

(4) Let children feel successful.

Many children don't like studying, mostly because they always fail in their studies and their test scores are always inferior to others. Therefore, we should proceed from the reality of children, appropriately set learning goals for children, and give practical and effective help, so that children can achieve their goals through hard work and gain a successful experience. Successful experiences will inspire children to continue their efforts and make him progress.

(5) Be partners in love and study.

Peer influence is also extremely important. Most children have strong imitation ability. As long as there is a good example around, children will become better internal motivation and gradually like learning. This peer power is sometimes even more effective than parents' preaching and beating.

In addition, as a mother, it is necessary to understand that what she says and does is the best example for her children. To prevent children from playing, we must first love reading and strive to create a good learning atmosphere for children. If you play mahjong, watch TV, dance and socialize all day, the child will never "get out of the mud without getting stained"!