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Family education-Ms. Quan Shunfen's kidnapping case
The Kidnapping Time of Ms Quan Shunfen is a Korean comedy film released in 2007. The film expounds the problems of parents and children about education and old-age care with humor and bright rhythm.

Ms. Quan Shunfen has a well-off family. She has two men, two women and four children. After her husband died, she left a large area of land. She runs a restaurant by herself, and her business is booming. Because she felt that when she was young, she just ignored the company with her children in order to earn money, so she gave her husband and most of her property to her children, leaving only a house and a restaurant. Three penniless young people kidnapped 72-year-old Quan in order to make money quickly. As a result, when the kidnappers called the four children of the hostage, they didn't care about the old lady's life or death, but just wanted to do their own thing. The old lady was chilling and decided to use the kidnapper to teach the child a lesson. So I directed and staged a kidnapping with the police.

The funny index of the film is not very high, but it is very interesting and belongs to light comedy. Chaplin once said that living near is a tragedy, and living far away is a comedy. The whole incident looks like a comedy, and its essence is sad-cold children, cold old mothers. Parents in Asia always devote their lives to their children. But some children don't know how to be grateful, they only know how to take, don't give back to their parents' affectionate love, and even ignore it, selfish and indifferent.

Ms. Quan and her husband worked hard all their lives and accumulated a large area of land. After the husband died, they were all given to the children. She expressed her love for her children with money. The way is wrong, but love is not right or wrong. But this way is doomed to fail to educate children with human feelings. Because children have lived under the guidance of money since childhood, they only know to look forward with one heart, gradually disappearing as human conscience and warmth, and becoming hypocritical, indifferent and heartless people.

It is ironic that she uses money to measure and convey love, and her children regard money as the only thing, and only have money and profit in their hearts. When Quan Shunfen, who was tied to the chair, heard that the kidnappers called her children one after another and told them that your mother had been kidnapped by me, all the children didn't care about her life or death.

The eldest son is busy canvassing for parliament and keeps saying that he is the one who knows how to respect the elderly best. As a result, he often didn't go home to visit his mother regardless of the problem, which led his mother to cheat her son into going home. In order to talk about business, the eldest daughter played golf with others, boasting loudly that she played well, but put the responsibility of saving her mother on the eldest brother, saying that this was the eldest son's business, so don't delay me from talking about big projects. When I called my little daughter, she was fooling around with a man and didn't want to answer the phone at all. The youngest son got the inheritance and wandered around the gambling table, showing indifference to his mother's kidnapping as if it were none of his business. Family, why is this?

All the ladies also realized that it was their own fault. How can a child who doesn't feel the care of his parents have a spark of love in his heart and become a compassionate, kind and warm person when he grows up? I always feel that I want to create a better life, so I get up early and work hard, thinking about not letting my children suffer these hardships, but ignoring a person's life, not just money, but also a heart and a conscience. People who have no conscience are selfish and indifferent, only care about utility and don't value feelings. Affection, love and friendship, which are worthless feelings in everyone's eyes, are the motivation and amulet for a person to live. Without the protection of love, even in downtown, it is as lonely as in the desert.

She neglected the education of love, companionship, love, concern, warm hug and gentle touch for her children, which did not cost her too much time and money, but made her feel the love of her parents. So if she wants to reform her children, she must take back the money she gave them first. She persuaded the kidnappers to plan the whole incident and got all the money from her children. She fired all the employees and let the children work in the shop. She used the money to build a community to take in lonely old people and homeless people. This is a very caring old lady, so God is willing to give her a chance to re-educate her children.

But in real life, few people take regret medicine. Education has always been related to the fate of a person, a family and a country. People are the foundation of the country. People are not good, and this country will not be good. It takes ten years to plant trees and a hundred years to educate people. How can we cultivate a friendly, kind, honest, sunny and active child? Long-term companionship will make children feel suffocated, and staying away will make children feel lonely. This is very contradictory.

Now many people are very talented, drawing, playing the piano, dancing, singing and so on. Ask them how they studied at the beginning. Most of them were forced to learn by their parents with sticks. Do you regret asking again? Answer, don't regret it, especially thank your parents for urging you. Seeing my paintings, dancing, singing and relaxing in my spare time, I am glad that I can have a talent. Because of the joy of harvest, I am grateful for the hard work when sowing.

Some children are naughty and will be scolded or even beaten by their parents, but they are still cheerful and sunny when they grow up. Some children have been scolded by their parents for their education since childhood, but they have become extreme when they grow up. Why is there such a difference? Because for children, it is actually like planting a tree. Although it is necessary to kill insects and trim branches, it is also necessary to fertilize and water. Only by discipline and care can a child become a truly healthy and active person.

As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. Children can't live without the overindulgence of principles and bottom lines. Overindulged children are self-centered, do not hesitate to hurt others in order to achieve their own goals, and take it for granted. Teenagers in the news commit criminal cases. The fundamental reason is that family education is not only ignoring abuse, but also conniving at teaching or simply ignoring it. Children in such families are worried about their mental health, have no fear, or have poor self-control. They can't contain their desires and like to take shortcuts and extreme ways to achieve their goals. It is the father's fault that his son doesn't teach. The significance of parents is not only to let children eat and wear warm clothes, but also to pay attention to communication with children.

The beloved son of parents has a far-reaching influence. With the high development of society, the requirements of major employers for academic qualifications are increasing day by day. In order to let their children have a good job in the future, many parents attach great importance to their children's achievements. Scores, in the real world, are really important. They can let their children go to good middle schools and universities, and with a high-quality educational background, they have the conditions and opportunities to enter major high-quality employment institutions. Only a good unit with stable and high income can have high-quality living conditions. This is the pressure of reality, and we must bear these living costs. In the face of pressure, parents should face it with their children and teach them to learn to adjust their emotions and release pressure.

Everyone's life is spent in constant learning and growth. Parents grow up with their children, and parents are children before they become parents. Recognize your own shortcomings, accept them frankly and actively find ways to solve them. As Ms. Quan Shunfen said, at this time, even if you fight, you should educate your children well.