Nowadays, TV programs, even cartoons, have many scenes of men and women making out. Although children should not be secretive about sexual topics, it is ok for children to see that these scenes are just imitations, but it will inevitably be embarrassing. What should adults do? When dealing with such problems, parents should pay attention to the following points.

1, most children hug and kiss the opposite sex, which is often a pure imitation behavior. They use the action language they learned from adults to express this childish love, but they don't really understand the true meaning of this action, so parents don't have to worry too much about it.

Never publicize this phenomenon as a joke or adopt an indifferent attitude among children, which will prompt children to imitate and think that it is recognized by adults. Over time, this kind of behavior will be strengthened, which will have a negative impact on children's psychological development in the future.

3. If parents find that the child fights after this behavior, it will leave a shadow on the child's mind: some children are more complicated to imitate this action because of rebellious psychology; Some children have a sense of inferiority and dare not touch different games from now on, which leads to difficulties in interpersonal communication in the future.

Foreign children often play this game when they are young, because they are guided by adults and the whole society. When they grow up, they naturally regard hugs and kisses as a kind of etiquette, which tells us that correct and effective guidance is very necessary.

1, the younger the child, the more attention should be paid: at ordinary times, the child should try to avoid seeing the action of * * * in the film and television pictorial; Some intimate behaviors between husband and wife should not be too frequent in front of children, so as not to give children an illusion that this is the main theme of life. In addition, at an appropriate age, children should live in different rooms with their parents.

2. Give proper sex education to children aged 3-6 to eliminate their mystery of the opposite sex. This kind of education should focus on gender education and give children some simple health knowledge.

3. Adults can properly guide children in games, let them play more interesting games and divert their attention, thus gradually reducing the chances of playing this kind of The Imitation Game.

Some children like to imitate cuddling, but it's harmless. Parents can say to him, "I know you want to be friends with her when you hug her, but a good friend can just play hand in hand." It's easy to fall when hugging, and it's unsanitary to kiss hot. It is best not to do this. "